Type what you're thinking about right now (11) - Page 677

anxiouslondoner · #**20281** 31st December 2018, 20:04

Not feeling like going out... but I feel like I should, though I expect I won't actually enjoy it so what's the point? I'll probably feel worse staying in though. Choices choices, all of them wrong.

anxiouslondoner · #**20282** 31st December 2018, 20:17

^ now I don't seem to be able to get in touch with my friends or have their address anywhere, so that's kind of made the decision for me.... :-(

Mo34 · #**20283** 31st December 2018, 21:17

Yes. Happy Birthday! Indigo.

Indigo_ · #**20284** 31st December 2018, 21:40

^^/^ Thanks Lee and Mo!

Professor Willow · #**20285** 31st December 2018, 22:18

I hate being gay

Merritt · #**20286** 1st January 2019, 00:11

Happy birthday, Indigo

Yeeeeesss, managed to distract myself and not notice when it turned midnight, avoiding the depressing 12 bongs that climax in some sort of anti-orgasm. Get in. It's all downhill from here.

anxiouslondoner · #**20287** 1st January 2019, 00:25

Happy belated birthday, Indigo!
And happy new year, everyone! Remember, the resolutions don't start until you wake up, so stay awake and be bad...

Silent Treatment · #**20288** 1st January 2019, 10:23

Quote:

Originally Posted by D1662

I hate being gay

Yes it’s shite..someone make me a heterosexual woman please!

Dougella · #**20289** 1st January 2019, 11:21

^ Be careful what you wish for

Toxic · #**20290** 1st January 2019, 12:53

I feel like consuming large amounts of alcohol to distract me from going back to work tomorrow..but I'll be sensible..I'll only have a bit

It's always a delicate time of the year as I'm in the right mindset to just walk out even though it will cripple me for years

Sigh, I really dislike life

Franz of Franzylvania · #**20291** 1st January 2019, 13:39

Just realised that after bills I've got about £300 left for the rest of this month. **** you, January!

Professor Willow · #**20292** 1st January 2019, 16:08

So far 2019 isn't feeling much different to 2018

Indigo_ · #**20293** 1st January 2019, 16:44

Quote:

Originally Posted by Merritt

Happy birthday, Indigo

Quote:

Originally Posted by anxiouslondoner

Happy belated birthday, Indigo!

Thanks both

Vienna · #**20294** 1st January 2019, 20:23

I texted a work colleague earlier about something that happened at work that he may have to deal with tomorrow, no reply .
I would've at least replied 'ok thanks for letting me know'

Professor Willow · #**20295** 1st January 2019, 22:21

It really pisses me off when I come home and my bf and his friend have been eating Maccies in the bedroom and leave all the packaging on the floor

Jam · #**20296** 2nd January 2019, 07:32

Been depressed and anxious since the birth of my son in July. Not sure how to get through this episode. I'm thinking about telling the occupational health dept at my work about my mental health, something I don't want to do, but I feel I'm going to need help with this, as I'm struggling. Just want to die.

Schmosby · #**20297** 2nd January 2019, 08:12

^Awwww sorry to hear that

Hope you work things out.

Merritt · #**20298** 2nd January 2019, 16:46

^^^ You deserve help if you feel you need it, Mr Jam. Even if it's something you aren't keen on yourself, it's worth it for your family's sake, your well being is theirs' too.

Vienna · #**20299** 2nd January 2019, 17:45

I've been thinking about this a lot.
At what point in someone's mind do they think they would like/want children? What is it??
It's hard to explain what I mean .
I have never had the thought that I want them so it's beyond my thinking how one day someone thinks it's a good idea to have one.
If I got accidentally pregnant I would be straight down the clinic demanding to have that parasite removed.

How does someone think it's a good thing to have a demanding screaming crying kid at your feet, how is it a good thing? How?
I honestly think there's something missing from my female mind , that thing that makes other females go 'aawwww isn't he cute' it's bizzare to me.

wez · #**20300** 2nd January 2019, 18:07

^ Sometimes life is simply incomplete without the love of a child?

Schmosby · #**20301** 2nd January 2019, 18:43

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vienna

I've been thinking about this a lot.
At what point in someone's mind do they think they would like/want children? What is it??
It's hard to explain what I mean .
I have never had the thought that I want them so it's beyond my thinking how one day someone thinks it's a good idea to have one.
If I got accidentally pregnant I would be straight down the clinic demanding to have that parasite removed.

How does someone think it's a good thing to have a demanding screaming crying kid at your feet, how is it a good thing? How?
I honestly think there's something missing from my female mind , that thing that makes other females go 'aawwww isn't he cute' it's bizzare to me.

I was going to start a thread about this myself, but didn't get time. Ill start one now.

Dougella · #**20302** 2nd January 2019, 19:28

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vienna

I've been thinking about this a lot.
At what point in someone's mind do they think they would like/want children? What is it??
It's hard to explain what I mean .
I have never had the thought that I want them so it's beyond my thinking how one day someone thinks it's a good idea to have one.
If I got accidentally pregnant I would be straight down the clinic demanding to have that parasite removed.

How does someone think it's a good thing to have a demanding screaming crying kid at your feet, how is it a good thing? How?
I honestly think there's something missing from my female mind , that thing that makes other females go 'aawwww isn't he cute' it's bizzare to me.

For some people it seems to be something they always know they want, even from a young age. For others it kicks in at a certain age, I think it must be something biological. Or sometimes people meet their partner and then they think "I want to create a family with you".
Personally I'm like you, I've never had the "I want to have a child" moment. I sometimes have slight biological feelings but my logical brain overrides them!

Mo34 · #**20303** 2nd January 2019, 21:11

Well...violet creams aren't nearly as nice as they should be. I love parma violets but these are just....odd and odd.

Mo34 · #**20304** 3rd January 2019, 07:26

I'm so confused with the days. I had it totally in my head that as I had a counselling appointment today it was wed (my usual day). Just checked what time thinking it was 10.30am and discovered it's actually at 1pm because it's actually Thursday and I'm supposed to be volunteering this s'morn at cat sanctuary.

On the plus side. I reckon our pregnant cat may have given birth by now ( I missed last week). #kittencuddles

Professor Willow · #**20305** 3rd January 2019, 11:25

I really need to start distancing myself from a member of my family

Dougella · #**20306** 3rd January 2019, 11:29

^^ I must be really dangerous then, great

Jam · #**20307** 3rd January 2019, 14:25

Quote:

Originally Posted by biscuits

^^

Definitely seek help and I hope you find something that can support you. Postnatal depression can affect Dads too - not sure if these articles are helpful:

https://www.nct.org.uk/life-parent/d...ou-should-know

https://www.babycentre.co.uk/a104618...ession-in-dads

look after yourself, bud x

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lee S

Hang in there, Ollie

Quote:

Originally Posted by Merritt

^^^ You deserve help if you feel you need it, Mr Jam. Even if it's something you aren't keen on yourself, it's worth it for your family's sake, your well being is theirs' too.

Quote:

Originally Posted by healingsoul

Sorry to hear that.

Hope things are worked out.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Schmosby

^Awwww sorry to hear that

Hope you work things out.

Thanks so much guys. You're so kind.

@Biscuits- yeah I wondered if it's PND without really knowing what it was, but the articles has pretty much convinced me it is.

Mo34 · #**20308** 3rd January 2019, 15:30

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mo34

On the plus side. I reckon our pregnant cat may have given birth by now ( I missed last week). #kittencuddles

Mamma cat is still pregnant. Poor thing, she is a tiny cat but massive at the min and has been for the last 3 weeks. Everyone's concerned how long it's going on for. Hope she'll be ok.

Toxic · #**20309** 4th January 2019, 19:50

Hmm

Sat at home dogsitting as the parents have had to rush to hospital as my last remaining grandparent's heart and breathing have apparently gone to shit.

Working out if no news is good news..I mean its been 4hrs now..surely you'd know something..I have no idea whats going on..getting a bit worried although I think most people who were around her saw this coming and share the same view this is probably it. I mean shes nearly 90..although I hadn't seen her in a few years as she went down the dementia route and had no idea who I was anyway...bleh.

edit

Ah nuts, basically been told to expect "that phone call" some point tonight.

Dougella · #**20310** 4th January 2019, 22:38

^ Sorry to hear that Toxic