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Old 16th August 2019, 01:01
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Back down, Bluebear, or i'll take your honey!

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Old 16th August 2019, 01:03
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You can have my bugs but not my honey
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Old 16th August 2019, 01:11
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Step aside, i'm taking the honey
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Old 16th August 2019, 01:48
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How was the honey?
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Old 16th August 2019, 01:56
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I’d rather talk about my honey being eaten than about the freakin “crisis” team
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Old 16th August 2019, 02:59
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Haha, very good!
Back atcha

I totally get it.....
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Old 16th August 2019, 03:04
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Why not invite the ages 4 to 10, maybe they are already here
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Old 16th August 2019, 03:11
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Anyone else never “answered back” as a child?

Maybe I’d have “grown up more normal” if I had done..
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Old 16th August 2019, 03:18
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I’m so freakin hungry. My honey pot is empty
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Old 4th October 2019, 16:45
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Blowin in the wind ...
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Old 4th October 2019, 16:50
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Where have all the flowers gone?
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Old 4th October 2019, 17:02
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^^Maybe quite apt for this old folks section...

https://youtu.be/ZgXNVA9ngx8

I shall have this tune in my head for the rest of the day now.
I totally blame you for this Bluebear
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Old 4th October 2019, 17:04
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Maybe quite apt for this old folks section...

https://youtu.be/ZgXNVA9ngx8

I shall have this tune in my head for the rest of the day now.
I totally blame you for this Bluebear
Yeah it’s a catchy song
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Old 4th October 2019, 17:05
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If 30 is ‘old’ this world is completely bonkers..
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Old 5th October 2019, 02:59
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If you're a worrier do you think it gets worse with time, or as you get older.
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Old 5th October 2019, 03:40
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^ I guess it depends on the individual newbs.

I've always been a worrier but it's got a lot worse over time. I will worry about anything and everything. I definitely worried more after having a child and it doesn't lessen as they get older.

Although I've only been officially diagnosed with having SA I wonder if I am also suffering with a general anxiety disorder because I can't imagine 'normal' people worrying this much.

Do you feel that you worry more than you used to newbs?
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Old 7th October 2019, 17:54
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If you're a worrier do you think it gets worse with time, or as you get older.
I guess it depends on the individual and their life experiences.
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Old 7th October 2019, 18:18
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I'm thinking how boring and juvenile cliques which judge and exclude others are. I guess that's why I find this forum useful as there are so many kind people here who are supportive to all.
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Old 7th November 2019, 22:38
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I think I need to stop watching documentaries on the Universe. It does sort of lead your brain down the path to some odd existential crisis.

I do kind of hope when you die that you don't just wink out and the mystery of it all is revealed. I'm gonna be mighty pissed if not
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Old 8th November 2019, 19:42
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How social anxiety has ravaged my life. It's all very depressing. Luckily I can take pleasure in the small things.
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Old 8th November 2019, 22:58
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Old 11th November 2019, 20:05
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Thanks Dougella.
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Old 23rd December 2019, 02:52
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How anxious and on edge I felt earlier today. As a passenger I felt very on edge, I'm not usually this bad, it's sad to see how this has become more of a issue recently, I was glad to get out of the car.

Also being around lots of people was an almighty struggle, socialising with lots of people at once is hard, Christmas is just a stressful time of year.
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Old 17th January 2020, 20:39
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I’m thinking why would I disclose where my cave is.
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Old 17th January 2020, 21:04
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Why would they be any different to who they are? I cannot change them and they cannot change me.
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Old 21st January 2020, 22:00
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That all my problems are tangled up in one huge ball and have been for years. And if I try and pull on one thread it just gets stuck. I need to deal with several threads at once. How?

Also I've been reflecting on my life and formative years in particular and I have concluded I need a shedload of person-centred therapy. I laugh in the face of CBT. It's not going to be cheap.
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Old 22nd January 2020, 01:39
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That blue bear is remarkably sweet.
Thank you HermannHesse.
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Old 22nd January 2020, 01:44
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That all my problems are tangled up in one huge ball and have been for years. And if I try and pull on one thread it just gets stuck. I need to deal with several threads at once. How?

Also I've been reflecting on my life and formative years in particular and I have concluded I need a shedload of person-centred therapy. I laugh in the face of CBT. It's not going to be cheap.
I can relate... My problems are definitely tanged up in a huge ball and I have no idea how to change (not sure its possible to change much of anything for me) (aside from skipping some obviously stupid behaviours I occasionally used to do and feel like absolute shit about it. I can be incredibly stupid sometimes) (although if I explained it to a therapist who was any good there would be an obvious link to an extremely dysfunctional and damaging upbringing)
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Old 30th January 2020, 21:48
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Out of curiosity, what happens when you hit 82?
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Old 31st January 2020, 18:49
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^ Maybe a special hidden board appears

I bet its full of debauchery!
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