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  #151  
Old 10th April 2017, 22:47
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Need to find ways to slow down my perception of time

It's freaking me the hell out

Never bothered me in my 20s
Same here. I'm hoping lots and lots of sex is the answer.
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Old 16th April 2017, 05:25
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I hate myself and I want to die. How original.
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Old 16th April 2017, 10:27
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Same here. I'm hoping lots and lots of sex is the answer.
If thats the answer it would certainly explain where my 20's disappeared to!
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Old 14th May 2017, 02:16
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Just a thought - everything is shit and worthless and I might as well kill myself. Sorry, I wish I didn't think like this.
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Old 14th May 2017, 17:51
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The roast lamb in the oven smells good
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Old 23rd May 2017, 10:56
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My Doctor said I had Leukopenia (too few white blood cells) but I've just noticed my new blood test request form says I have Leukocytosis (too many white blood cells). Yesterday my prescription was written all wrong. I'm wondering if anyone there knows what they're doing.
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Old 23rd May 2017, 22:45
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Hoping I can remember how to sleep soon. I'm starting to feel like a zombie.
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Old 23rd May 2017, 22:56
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^ I hope you can.
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Old 23rd May 2017, 23:18
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^ Ta
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Old 28th May 2017, 22:55
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That as of Wednesday I'm old enough to post here now. And not even too terrified by that yet. My twenties were predominantly a pile of arse. Come at me, thirties!
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Old 29th May 2017, 13:55
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^ Welcome to the club
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Old 30th June 2017, 22:50
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I honestly don't know how I'm going to survive living alone.
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Old 1st July 2017, 03:30
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I honestly don't know how I'm going to survive living alone.
What do you mean?
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Old 1st July 2017, 09:16
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I honestly don't know how I'm going to survive living alone.
You're a lot stronger than you think Clementine.
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Old 1st July 2017, 14:41
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I really wish my dad's gf would butt out of the housing discussions, she's got far too much to say for someone who's only been in the picture for 2+yrs. I'm not involved in anything neither, i'm just listening to them talking in the garden and it's getting on my nerves how much she's pushing .. it's idea after idea. This is the first time i've heard them talk at length about it. The annex idea is very favoured - well, a log cabin thing, in the garden.

I don't know how i feel about it... the whole situations been awkward at times, especially when she first came on the scene, i've become a lot less resistant to her, but they obviously want their own space.. they probably have had for quite some time, hence all the caravanning. I just feel me being in a 'big shed' in the garden is going to be weird. I'm not liking the idea of seeing her living here neither, i'd rather be elsewhere entirely. She'll have much more influence too and will no doubt have family and friends over cos my dad has already completely adopted her social circle - he didn't have much of his own anyway - and a log cabin only provides so much privacy, especially in the summer when they'll (no doubt) have bbq parties. She's on about getting a hot tub too ... yep.

Ugh.

The best scenario would be for my mum to move in with her (aging) dad, then i into her flat, but Mum kinda frowned and said no at that when i mentioned it midweek.

I don't know, it's such a mess. This has been on my head for quite some time now. I truly wish i was suicidal, that would cure all.
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Old 1st July 2017, 15:19
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^ Could you afford to rent something on your own, or move in with your mom?
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Old 1st July 2017, 15:35
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I haven't really considered whether i could afford to rent - 'i don't earn enough' - that's as far as i've thought, but really, it's just not doable on a shitty part-time job. Plus, with this job, there's no certainty, they get rid of you at the drop of a hat with no recourse. I've been working here for 3+yrs and i've seen so many people come and go, for various reasons ... i wouldn't ever like to depend on this job.

My mum lives in a 1-bedroom flat
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Old 1st July 2017, 15:39
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^ Could you house/flat share? You may not want to. It's not something I'd ever do again.
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Old 1st July 2017, 15:47
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Nah, that won't work, panics me thinking about it.
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Old 1st July 2017, 15:52
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^ It may still be worth looking into renting, a small studio flat perhaps? On a short-term lease. Could you pick up more hours at work? Or find a second part-time job?
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Old 1st July 2017, 16:26
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It's a struggle doing anything these days, i'm in at the deep end with avoidance issues, i find it difficult to focus on helping myself - looking at property is something other people do.

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Old 1st July 2017, 16:28
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^ I hope things pick up for you soon Spud.
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Old 1st July 2017, 16:49
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Thanks, Tiger
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Old 5th July 2017, 10:45
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I'm worrying about women's stuff and wishing I wasn't such a ridiculous, shy child when it comes to talking about these things :/
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Old 5th July 2017, 10:56
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It's too warm today and busy.
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Old 5th July 2017, 17:47
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^^ What is bothering you Clem?
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Old 6th July 2017, 14:10
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^ it's probably nothing
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Old 6th July 2017, 15:56
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^ I hope it is.
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Old 9th July 2017, 10:43
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Today I am knackered and finding work really slow.

I need to work at full capacity to make enough money each month to cover the outgoings.

When I'm not able to I get despondent and work even slower, creating a cycle of gloom!

On the plus side I went to the gym 5 times this week which I haven't managed to do for a while!!!
I used to be the same. When at work I would often find myself quite anxious and hyper aware of things going on around me, then I would be really easily distracted and find it incredibly hard to focus and be efficient. This in turn would make me frustrated, stressed and despondent. I would end up spending most of my day pretending to work on my PC when actually I was just packaging it all up and emailing to myself at home so I could do it that evening and bring it in the next day instead.

Now that I am doing roughly the same but as a hobby and from home I am at least 10 times more efficient and that isn't exaggerating. Not that I am suggesting you leave work and take up your job as a hobby That is a terrible idea.

I do have an issue with confidence in any work I produce (or did at least) so at least at home I could also recheck it over and over too.

Well done on the gym, healthy body healthy mind, I think thats what they say anyway
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Old 9th July 2017, 20:48
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Randomly thinking, what happens when the Internet world meets the real world, like if you're in the supermarket and think I know them from instagram, or a forum, Facebook. Would you speak to them, or ignore them?
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