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Dread and anger and love! Ended up drinking again tonight. I was dancing in front of stage with random women. In the moment, I just thought it was awesome but looking back and remembering people with their phones out, I feel sad and disappointed with people.
Its impossible to be yourself in this world. |
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^ ditto
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I feel crap today. I've been to two barbeques, two days in a row and the social effort required has drained me. I didn't even drink as I've given up so I can't blame a hangover, it's a bit of slight sunstroke, social fatigue and overeating.
Now I can't think of a compelling reason to even get up. It's too hot to do anything anyway. |
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Dads taken the dog back and i'm missing her already
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Thanks, Dimps
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Oh and I found my lunch, pushed to the back of the fridge, so that was a needless strop I threw! |
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Me too Ethel. It's the pits. Feel better.
Oh no biscuits. Hope your cat is OK, and the vet can just give her something that'll make her better. |
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^^^ I hope that your cat will be okay Biscuits x
In the past, one of my cats was struggling to urinate and appeared to be in a lot of discomfort when she tried. When we took her to the Vets she was diagnosed with Cystitis - a urinary tract infection. A course of antibiotics cleared it up, although it was an absolute nightmare trying to get the pills down her daily!! Apparently even just a change in diet or stress can sometimes cause Cystitis (my cat had just returned home from a week in the cattery). While being unable to urinate is a medical emergency it doesn't necessarily mean that your cat has something that can't be quickly sorted out with a course of Antibiotics or an Anti-inflammatory medication. I very much hope that this is the case with your cat Biscuits. I know how awful it is when they are poorly and they can't understand that by taking them to the Vets we are doing everything in our power to make them well again. |
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Hope your cats ok biscuits
We've had a few cats at the sanctuary unable to wee/passing blood it's always been cystitis or kidney stones (sorted by pills rather surgery). Hopefully it'll be easy to sort out. |
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Ah, I don't know why I felt the need to add that Cystitis is a urinary tract infection in my post above. I wasn't implying that you don't know what Cystitis is Biscuits, of course you do. I just seem to have this extremely annoying habit of always waffling and giving way too much unnecessary advice and information
Anyway, please let us know how puss is |
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^ I'm not sure about that, but thank you for being so lovely newbs x
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Have a horrible knot in my stomach because it really is crunch time for this relationship.
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^ my sisters cat is on special food for her Kidneys but she is quite old now, how old is your cat biscuits? if you don't want to tell no worries i think the older the cat gets sometimes the kidneys act up as when my mum had cats they too had kidney probs when they got older...
I'm feeling quite positive at the mo but still can't get motivated to sort stuff in the garden and i need to rearrange a few things in the kitchen but where to start in the biggest hurdle... made some steps today had to use the phone twice to arrange to take my car in for a service and had to arrange for some blood tests at the docs but the nurse is away at the mo so gotta phone back in a week or two but i did it... thats a big thing i dread is using the phone! |
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@ Biscuits - Aw, I'm so glad that your cat is going to be okay - what a fright though! (I hope your mum is feeling better today too)
I'm sure she will be fine now she has some medicine I was advised to feed my cat special dietary food, but do you think she would eat it?! She continued to have Felix like her siblings. |
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@ T - Well done on making those phone calls It's something that I also find particularly difficult to do so I know how relieved you must have felt afterwards
@ D1662 - All the very best with your difficult decision. A break up is never easy for either person but life is far too short to be in a relationship that isn't right for you (or your partner) and is causing you so much unhappiness Quote:
Your beautiful description of sitting in Tewksbury Abbey gardens with nature all around you conjured up such a peaceful image for me and reminded me a little of 'The Peace of Wild things' by Wendell Berry: "When despair for the world grows in me and I wake in the night at the least sound in fear of what my life and my children’s lives may be, I go and lie down where the wood drake rests in his beauty on the water, and the great heron feeds. I come into the peace of wild things who do not tax their lives with forethought of grief. I come into the presence of still water. And I feel above me the day-blind stars waiting with their light. For a time I rest in the grace of the world, and am free" Nice eh |
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^ Melangell sounds like you've done a wonderful job the last few days as an aunty and they'll look back on you with fondness. And they've learnt that the size of someone's car or whatever isn't important in the scheme of things. I can't remember where your sister leaves.. was it abroad somewhere? If not then could this be the start of more regular contact with them maybe?
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Glad your cats ok biscuits |
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anxious, stopped of at the library on my way to volunteering at cgl. Hate this kind of anxiety. least I don't have to go to there sodding team meeting today
I'm covered in horsefly bites an all. One bugger bit me repeatedly up at MIND yesterday, till someone manage to kill it for me. Awful night of itchiness and soreness. |
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Utterly depressed
I left school 17 years ago and in many ways I'm still the same pathetic child that I was back then. How did it all go so wrong? |
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^ Please don't be so hard on yourself D. Even since joining this forum you've come such a long way. Life can change at any moment and sometimes for the better
Very stressed It's the night before my 16 year old goes away on a school trip - need I say more. I'm going to miss the argumentative lil so and so while he's gone |
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biscuits - Do you have many pets?
Thanks yes it takes me awhile to pluck up the courage to use the phone having several scenories playing around in my bed gggrr Consolida - Thanks yes so so relieved when i done it... its just plucking up the courage of doing it is the main problem i have and when its all over i say why i'm i worried in the first place! |
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^ Me too newbs
Hope you feel better soon x @ Biscuits Yep he is a good un' but of course I'm a tad biased Missing my son who is away on a school trip terribly and the other half is playing PC games so I've taken a Lorazepam and gone to bed. |
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Sad and a bit worthless. I've not moved away from the area that I grew up in and that should mean I have loads of school friends still here. However I didn't have many friends at school and those I did have weren't deep friendships. But my mrs was at the same school and knows the same people, she actually works with one of them and sees her socially etc. So when something happens (today, funeral of a parent of someone from school) I'm not oblivious to it, but also not comfortable having involvement in doing the whole pub thing etc. Its like I'm a loose thread that would be better cut off but that never happens.
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