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  #20101  
Old 7th December 2017, 03:34
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^ What happened with the parcel lady?
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Old 7th December 2017, 06:50
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^ What happened with the parcel lady?
Nothing, was years ago, wouldn't of had the guts to ask her out anyway, shame as she was a good looking girl.
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Old 7th December 2017, 09:54
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Why am I fine on some days and a ridiculous, anxious wreck on others? I have to sign for a parcel today, sometimes I’ll think nothing of it but today I’m feeling sick and in a panic about it.
I don’t feel as if I can let anyone see me because I feel like I’m some sort of freak who should always stay hidden. I worry I’ll get something wrong or they’ll talk to me and I’ll freeze up or something.
I don’t know, it’s all so stupid and irrational. I don’t know how I’m going to cope living alone
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Old 7th December 2017, 10:32
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You'll be okay. Once it's done you won't have to worry about it anymore.

Until then, just try not to think about it. Like, completely forget that it's even a thing that you have to do. That's how I deal with these things.
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Old 7th December 2017, 10:35
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Also breathe. Breathe in for 4 seconds and breathe out for 4 seconds. Actually does something for me surprisingly.
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Old 7th December 2017, 12:26
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Thanks, James. I wish I could just forget about it but I worry too much that I might answer the door and itíll be someone else and I canít cope with that, so Iím sat in the bedroom (because it faces the road) and Iím listening out for vans.
Itís ridiculous, I feel like such loser
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Old 7th December 2017, 12:57
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Hey, this kind of thinking does you no good. Stop trying to make yourself feel bad!

You're not the only one who feels this way. We all go to absurd lengths to avoid a little awkwardness, I know I do.
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Old 7th December 2017, 13:23
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I should cut off all human contact (including online interactions) and live as a hermit in the middle of no where then I won’t be able to upset anyone
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Old 7th December 2017, 14:08
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^ No you shouldn't Muggins, you are a lovely poster on here who is well liked by everyone
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Old 7th December 2017, 14:27
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^^ Muggins i dont know how we would cope without your posts you are such a lovely person

WANTED: 3 friends (haha) to learn this with me:



part from i will not attempt the singing
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Old 7th December 2017, 17:19
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^^^ hope you're okay muggins X

Someone merry Christmas'd me earlier. It felt wrong and I wanted to slap them. I've been violated.
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Old 7th December 2017, 18:49
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bought a spike from ebay. And it is really bothering me. It's on a shelf and I'm thinking what if I accidentally sat on it
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Old 7th December 2017, 19:05
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Clementine, the fear of something is ALWAYS far worse than the actual event. Hopefully you now have your parcel. And as for coping when you live alone, I’m pretty sure that you will. I would be exactly the same. I stress and agonise over events. I have to go through them because there’s no alternative, and every time that I do I come out the other side wondering what on earth it was I was getting all worked up about. We’re internally programmed to believe that we are failures, some of us, but in reality we’re not. And when push comes to shove we can actually be far stronger than others around us. If you’re going to be living on your own that’s because you’ve done such a good job with your boys and they are able to fend for themselves in this world. I’m going to shut up now because I know nothing about what you’re feeling but I can empathise and you’re never alone whilst SAUK exists! ( it doesn’t fix stuff I know, but there are people who understand)
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Old 7th December 2017, 19:20
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:’) Thanks so much, Nervous Wreck. You’re so kind


And thank you James
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Old 7th December 2017, 19:52
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The guy on the news saving the wild bunny at the side of the forest fires in California.
Least there's some decent sorts out there.
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Old 7th December 2017, 19:54
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@Muggins sorry your not feeling great, as other's said your comments are valued and kind and caring, I hope your mood picks up soon .


Is it weird for me to go to a yoga class, feel a bit worried i'd be the only guy and women might think i'm there for other reasons, actually think the stretching etc would help my aches and pains from exercising + my job.
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Old 7th December 2017, 19:59
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The guy on the news saving the wild bunny at the side of the forest fires in California.
Least there's some decent sorts out there.
I saw that last night on Twitter, made me cry happy tears
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Old 7th December 2017, 20:03
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I saw that last night on Twitter, made me cry happy tears
me too
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Old 7th December 2017, 21:08
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Is it weird for me to go to a yoga class, feel a bit worried i'd be the only guy and women might think i'm there for other reasons, actually think the stretching etc would help my aches and pains from exercising + my job.
I hope you're only going to look at the bum show...is there another valid reason?

Girls get to check out guys at gyms, right? So all is fair.

I wish I was brainy. Like scary brainy. Then my head wouldn't hurt trying to cope with advanced science.

Makes you realise why people cling to the old way. Man dies on stick. Goes to heaven.we need to feel bad about that . Job done.
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Old 7th December 2017, 22:01
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I'm thinking about how whatever's wrong with me makes me so stupid. There are days where I feel like my IQ has been cut in half. I'm not clever at the best of times, but today I feel can't-be-trusted-cooking-oven-chips dumb.
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Old 7th December 2017, 23:23
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might quit the internet :D
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Old 7th December 2017, 23:25
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^ completely? That would take some doing these days!
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Old 7th December 2017, 23:28
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How pathetic i am for hiding in the kitchen just now when some folk came into office i clean. Didn't literally 'hide', just kind of hung around in kitchen pretending to clean until they left and hoping they wouldn't come and talk to me :/ not very mature behaviour for a 40 year old. But oh well. Such is the sa life i suppose. Or the life of pathetic, weirdo me.
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Old 7th December 2017, 23:32
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might quit the internet :D
I heard a saying I forget where or by whom, anywho it went ' the Internet used to be what we did to escape real life, now real life is what we do to escape the Internet'. It's quite apt really.
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Old 7th December 2017, 23:52
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it is.
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Old 7th December 2017, 23:53
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How pathetic i am for hiding in the kitchen just now when some folk came into office i clean. Didn't literally 'hide', just kind of hung around in kitchen pretending to clean until they left and hoping they wouldn't come and talk to me :/ not very mature behaviour for a 40 year old. But oh well. Such is the sa life i suppose. Or the life of pathetic, weirdo me.
maybe some other people would also try avoid the office folk, just wanting to concentrate on their job
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Old 8th December 2017, 00:17
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Can't believe I'm wide awake again.
I seem to hit 11pm ish at the minute and 'ping' sleepiness gone.
Need to find me a film to watch and hope I drop off.
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Old 8th December 2017, 01:26
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I think that if I actually had some regular social interaction I might not be as inclined to source all my company from the f***ing make-believe pixies and elves that reside inside my head. I just can't keep living my life out within the walls of my cranium, it's not healthy but where to find these elusive real people?
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Old 8th December 2017, 01:38
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maybe some other people would also try avoid the office folk, just wanting to concentrate on their job
Aye, maybe. They're alright folk, the ones i've spoke to in the past, but you know, they're people, and its easier to avoid them than inflict my social ineptness on them, or something..
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Old 8th December 2017, 08:22
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I'm thinking about taking my empty bottles downstairs, but I'm probably not gonna. Hence why I typed in this thread and not the "what I'm thinking about doing just now" thread.
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