I just don't understand.
Posted 13th January 2009 at 12:08 by oXPureSilenceXo
Okies what I dont understand is why so many people are shallow on this forum.
I have seen the threads asking shallow like questions and people actually coming back with shallow answers.
Why is this world so shallow, of all people I thought people with SA would not be shallow, but I suppose I mistaken.
Looks, money, thats all it is about in this world, why can't people like people for who they are inside.
Regardless of there looks or the possesions, like them for being them!
Am I to soft for this world? maybe I belong somewhere else...or need to be more shallow to feel like I fit in somewhere... >.>
It makes me angry inside, and also very sad.
I have seen the threads asking shallow like questions and people actually coming back with shallow answers.
Why is this world so shallow, of all people I thought people with SA would not be shallow, but I suppose I mistaken.
Looks, money, thats all it is about in this world, why can't people like people for who they are inside.
Regardless of there looks or the possesions, like them for being them!
Am I to soft for this world? maybe I belong somewhere else...or need to be more shallow to feel like I fit in somewhere... >.>
It makes me angry inside, and also very sad.
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Hi PureSilence
I wouldn't describe people on here as being particually "shallow", i'm not sure quite why you think that.
Anyway i'd be sad to see you go, i don't you need too and i've not noticed you doing or saying anything to upset anyone.
Posted 13th January 2009 at 14:07 by Pal 
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I sort of feel the same about those threads... partly because they all seem to end up with the majority coming to a conclusion that someone like me stands no chance of finding love.
You have to be rich, confident, good looking, alpha male... more or less the type of bloke i can't stand, let alone want to be myself... and so I'm made to feel like I'm some how worthless, and nobody would ever want me...
Which I know isn't true, but sometimes the fact so many people think like that does get to me a bit.Posted 13th January 2009 at 14:31 by brian_maiden
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Not sure that any of them (let alone all of them) have "the majority" concluding that! A few people can be quite vocal without actually speaking from personal experience.Quote:they all seem to end up with the majority coming to a conclusion that someone like me stands no chance of finding love
Posted 13th January 2009 at 16:39 by Avocado
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Why do you assume that rich, confident, good looking, aplha male automatically equates to arrogant, nasty tosser. It doesn't at all.Quote:You have to be rich, confident, good looking, alpha male... more or less the type of bloke i can't stand, let alone want to be myself... and so I'm made to feel like I'm some how worthless, and nobody would ever want me...
Also don't fall into the belief that you can't change, you can, you just need to actually try and be persistant.Posted 13th January 2009 at 20:54 by Pal
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That's the thing... aside from the SA, I don't want to change... I don't want to be an alpha male... alpha males are generally wankers....
Posted 14th January 2009 at 00:06 by brian_maiden
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Quote:That's the thing... aside from the SA, I don't want to change... I don't want to be an alpha male... alpha males are generally wankers....
I think you're over generalising here, you may percieve "alpha males" as being mostly wankers but i know/have known loads who aren't, besides i hate the whole "alpha male" terminology.Posted 14th January 2009 at 15:55 by Pal
