yes its quite possible, my dad has SA so i think it is possible i inheritted it from him!

nite mhealer3 - i too find it easier to interact online and there are some lovely supportive peopl on here. Wishing you all the best (read your previous blog too) for the future - keep smiling and persevering.

That sounds excellent advise mhealer3

I recently was on a 6 session self confidence course....where the core of this was to tell yourself you already are what you wish to become....

So i said to myself (because i'm starting a career as a support worker for peeps with brain injuries tomorrow and i'm absolutely pooing me pants!) is to say instead of 'i am hoping to become a great carer' you say 'i am a great carer' in the hope we will then grow into our new better shoes...

Good luck with everything i am going through a divorce too and it's hard but with hope we will be just fine...