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Cairn · #**5851** 15th April 2016, 11:19

Quote:

Originally Posted by Z.

I can finally blow smoke rings. I'm not at the Gandalf stage yet though.

What a ****ing show off.

You mean vape rings?

newbs16 · #**5852** 15th April 2016, 12:21

That's lovely

Oddity · #**5853** 15th April 2016, 13:59

^^ Get a Noctua, they never* go bad

*Might do after 20 years though

Pandapop · #**5854** 15th April 2016, 16:15

Another platinum down, woop.

Pablo Huntsbach · #**5855** 15th April 2016, 17:19

Both parents just got 'new' phones, don't know how to use them and expect me to sort them out like I know anything about 5 year old knock off vodaphone branded phones. I would jump out of the window but it's only 20 ft off the ground so that would just be stupid.

Fantastical · #**5856** 15th April 2016, 17:48

Never go on a climbing holiday with your partner. ****ing nightmare. Really wish I'd bought some sharp objects with me.

Unusually for a week's holiday I'm desperate to get home and have a hug from my mum. On the edge of crying again.

Cairn · #**5857** 15th April 2016, 18:04

What's happened?

Cairn · #**5858** 15th April 2016, 18:05

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pablo Huntsbach

Both parents just got 'new' phones, don't know how to use them and expect me to sort them out like I know anything about 5 year old knock off vodaphone branded phones. I would jump out of the window but it's only 20 ft off the ground so that would just be stupid.

Fantastical · #**5859** 15th April 2016, 18:11

Argument this morning was the last straw I think. Sexist attitudes. It's my job to wash and dry up all the breakfast things and clear away his mess from making sandwiches. So that he can brush his teeth and get ready for climbing. And moan that he doesn't want to hold people up. So obviously it takes me longer to get ready.

It's the constant sexist and racist attitudes getting to me. And making me feel like the ****ing Spanish Inquisition for just trying to make a conversation around what he's been climbing that day (had two days not climbing together). Then blaming his idea of not drinking this week on me. I dony give a **** what he drinks - it was his idea not to drink. So now it's become a joke amongst the group that I told him he couldn't drink and he's disobeying me by drinking.

And I don't think I can climb with him anymore.

Really really really need to cut. x.x

Cairn · #**5860** 15th April 2016, 18:35

You don't need to cut!

But maybe you need to accidentally bury your ice axe in his head when you get back!

kirbycrackle · #**5861** 15th April 2016, 20:21

Food

newbs16 · #**5862** 15th April 2016, 20:24

My bed, I'm tired again

kirbycrackle · #**5863** 15th April 2016, 21:38

I love this old guitar.

Indigo_ · #**5864** 15th April 2016, 21:44

It's probably time to go to bed when your vision is so blurred you can't see the screen. But pfft, not on a Friday night

Fantastical · #**5865** 15th April 2016, 22:00

I've been thinking I was the last few months Biscuits but this week has got pretty tough. Was hard for at start of relationship then relaxed into it but this week... Thanks for the PM offer

still in Spain at the moment so not online much. Home tomorrow night late then either stay at R's or drive home.

Hoping might just be tiredness from trip and will be okay next week but we'll see :/

Z. · #**5866** 16th April 2016, 01:04

Bloody hell, it's snowing here.

Z. · #**5867** 16th April 2016, 01:09

From the bloody sky!

It isn't settling though because it rained earlier. Bloody rain.

Z. · #**5868** 16th April 2016, 01:12

We hardly ever get snow either. Definitely not in April

Cairn · #**5869** 16th April 2016, 01:18

Cairn · #**5870** 16th April 2016, 01:20

In the Midlands we had a terrible snow storm in March 2010 I believe it was.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...snow-wind.html

kirbycrackle · #**5871** 16th April 2016, 01:56

...Bright are the stars that shine, dark is the sky. I know this love mine will never die...

Fantastical · #**5872** 16th April 2016, 07:29

Am I being unreaonable that it upsets me his priority is him being ready in the morning? So I have to tidy up his lunch stuff so he can get ready?

Apparently I'm just being crazy and it's because I'm a girl.

Silent Ninja · #**5873** 16th April 2016, 07:39

^ Well, I don't get out much or do anything with anybody else but I thought that people were expected to clean up after themselves these days irrespective of gender.

newbs16 · #**5874** 16th April 2016, 07:44

^^ What do you mean tidy up this lunch stuff, you mean make his lunch?

Fantastical · #**5875** 16th April 2016, 08:05

Washing up and drying up his breakfast and lunch things. He did make his lunch.

Just pissing me off that he won't apologise, doesn't see why it upsets me. Just writes it off as my hormones, that I must be about to start my period.

And me being me when people say stuff to me I can't forget it and it loops round and round in my head. All I can think now is that I'm holding him back.

I should have suncreamed his back earlier, I know it's my fault stuff went shit. He can write it off, ignore it and I can't. My ****ing brain won't let me.

Relationships are a pain in the arse.

Dougella · #**5876** 16th April 2016, 11:09

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fantastical

Washing up and drying up his breakfast and lunch things. He did make his lunch.

Just pissing me off that he won't apologise, doesn't see why it upsets me. Just writes it off as my hormones, that I must be about to start my period.

And me being me when people say stuff to me I can't forget it and it loops round and round in my head. All I can think now is that I'm holding him back.

I should have suncreamed his back earlier, I know it's my fault stuff went shit. He can write it off, ignore it and I can't. My ****ing brain won't let me.

Relationships are a pain in the arse.

Noooo, it's not your job to tidy up after him! Don't do it.

Also, if a guy suggested I was annoyed because I was about to start my period there would be serious trouble.......

Chocolate Chin · #**5877** 16th April 2016, 11:29

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dougella

Noooo, it's not your job to tidy up after him! Don't do it.

Also, if a guy suggested I was annoyed because I was about to start my period there would be serious trouble.......

Red rag to a bull, he should know better. Ranks up there with chill, or relax.

anxiouslondoner · #**5878** 16th April 2016, 11:43

Weekend again. Don't know what to do for the next 45 hours.
Someone tell me how to live my life please, I'm obviously incapable of decision.

Metal Goat · #**5879** 16th April 2016, 13:46

@fantastical - it depends. If he works and you don't (and he uses his money to support you) then I think you should clean up. Not a gender thing. I work full time and my husband doesn't and so he does all the cleaning. And yes, if I'm in a rush, he cleans up after me. It doesn't take much time and I would still choose to spend half an hour cleaning every day than a whole day at work. If he complained I'd offer to swap with him. He could work all day and I would stay at home and do cleaning. That's much less stressful.

If both of you work, or he doesn't use his money to support you then he should be cleaning up after himself.

Spectrelight · #**5880** 16th April 2016, 15:22

Why am I in Hackney?