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[Quietman]

I may sound like a whimp, but I cant take anymore of this bullying and abuse from him. Ive had enough theres just no way out of it.

[Dougella]

^ You're not a wimp at all, that's what bullying and abuse does! The way out is either going to be you being able to move somewhere else or him being taken somewhere else for a period of time, but either of those is very possible.

[Quietman]

^ Its just making me feel all suicidal and scared, then he has a habit of putting it all back onto me, I really cant go on much longer, the mans poison even if he is ill pure filth.

[Dougella]

^ Can you contact someone else to help you? Or ask them to call 999 for you?

[Quietman]

Theres no one to help me, I texted my godmother she said shes been advised to do nothing at the moment and let him make the next move. My only option is the police and I was hoping it wouldnt go there

[Percy]

Originally Posted by Lee S

And QVC always have their 'Christmas in July' shows

[Quietman]

^ He just had a go at me and then went to bed said its all my fault, tomorrow I will get him, I think he will want the weights back and then I will refuse we will get into a scuffle and I will then phone the police, because something has got to change its either me or him.

[Consolida]

@ Quietman - I'm so sorry that things have escalated so badly with your dad
Is he threatening to physically hurt you? If you seriously fear for your safety then please call for help. Could your godmother put you up for while?

[Quietman]

Its verbal but he goes aggresive if i argue and once or twice I think he will hit me if I carry on arguing with him. My weights are ruined just hassle with him, I will take him on if it went to a fight though. My godmother said although wants to help she cant come between us.

[Consolida]

^ Can't come between you? Heck, it sounds like things have gone beyond that
If I was your godmother I'd be round to your place like a shot and would have you out of there until your dad gets the help that he needs.

[Quietman]

^ Thanks all im all alone apart from sauk. Im starting to record him on my phone so I have proof of his behaviour if I need it.

[Consolida]

^^ It's an exellent idea to gather as much proof as you can so that it isn't just your word against his. I know this must be terribly hard for you as it's still your dad but sometimes you've got to be cruel to be kind. You're doing all you possibly can to get him help. You're showing immense strength and fortitude in a situation that most people wouldn't be able to cope with. Your mum would be proud of you Quietman

[Dougella]

Yes recording what he's saying to you sounds like a very good idea.

[Mellie]

why do I always wake up tired!

[Mellie]

At home now been discharged yay hard avoiding house mate who has covid tho!

[Quietman]

^ Way to go Mellie, so happy for you.

[Percy]

Originally Posted by Mellie

At home now been discharged yay hard avoiding house mate who has covid tho!

Congrats Mellie

[Hollie]

^ have you changed your signature mr devil?
That's an interesting site, I'm just having a look around it while I can't sleep

[Mellie]

Thanks quietman so nice to be back at home in peace and quiet

[Dougella]

^ Do you know if you snore or if you wake up a lot? It could be that you're not getting very good quality sleep.

[BFG_]

Thinking about how much energy will have been used to power sauk over the years how much energy the servers have used plus all the devices, phones, tablets, pc's etc used to view it.

[biscuits]

^ you know how they have those 'Name a Star' gifts? Well, I'm thinking of starting up a 'Name That Hole in the Ozone Layer' gift box.

Would you be interested in naming a hole in the ozone layer after sauk?

£456.10.

[Dougella]

^ Oh yes, that will do it too unfortunately.

[BFG_]

Originally Posted by biscuits

^ you know how they have those 'Name a Star' gifts? Well, I'm thinking of starting up a 'Name That Hole in the Ozone Layer' gift box.

Would you be interested in naming a hole in the ozone layer after sauk?

£456.10.

Is that like going to confession, pay the money and our sins are absolved?

I'll take two as long as you get a tree planted for each purchase..

[biscuits]

^ my first customer :D

Great idea to include gimmicky carbon offsetting in this venture.

[BFG_]

^you mean carbon offsetting isn't really saving the planet

[BFG_]

^ I have a selection of crappy fiats that I drive these days including a crappy fiat van.

You still driving a trabant? Lada? Something Eastern block wasn't it?

[Amara 94]

I have added some app time and website time restrictions to my phone the last few days. This includes google.

I was thinking to actually search the answer to certain questions requires guts because it’s not always what we want to hear.

I find google is useful but can cause compulsive behaviour when it comes to searching for answers and then because there as so many different opinions you don’t actually find the answer unless you actually search for the answer in real life or find concrete proof.

[Dean Winchester]

Finally got my hair cut, feeling much better and more myself

[Dean Winchester]

^ Well, if it makes you feel any better, Crafty, when I've seen pictures of you I have always thought that you are a handsome man. I'm sure that you will look as good after your clipper trim as you did before.