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View Poll Results: What age did you first get a girl friend?
Under 13 8 3.35%
Young teen(13 - 16) 30 12.55%
Older teen(17+) 70 29.29%
I have not yet found my first love 131 54.81%
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Old 26th April 2007, 20:24
ClaireLou ClaireLou is offline
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I'm 18 - 19 in February and I've never had a boyfriend. I feel ashamed to admit it.
And 6 months later...
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Old 26th April 2007, 20:25
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31 see ClaireLou... an Angel whom I adore
I LOVE YOU CLAIRE
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Old 26th April 2007, 20:46
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26 or so. Have known ppl in there early 40's who have been shot by cupids arrow.

Am chuffed for the latest sauk love bugs, wish you both well.
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Old 26th April 2007, 20:50
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Dunno if its that time of year, but a lot of people I know are dating or have found love. Anyone else finding the same thing or is it just me?

(P.S. as per the thread question, I still haven't had my first proper girlfriend yet...)
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Old 26th April 2007, 20:54
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31 see ClaireLou... an Angel whom I adore
I LOVE YOU CLAIRE
Aww =D
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Old 26th April 2007, 20:56
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When talking to me offline, you may as well be talking to a brick wall - and a bloody ugly one at that. So no, I haven't got a girlfriend and I never had had one.

Seems like most girls I ever have fancied in the past have been far more confident than me and lead far more active social lives. I could never keep up with that.
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Old 26th April 2007, 21:02
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Seems like most girls I ever have fancied in the past have been far more confident than me and lead far more active social lives. I could never keep up with that.
I'm odd...

I say that because when I think of the people I know, I kinda think that I could never match up to their expectations of what they would want in a partner, or rather I think to myself "I'm not good enough for them". Net result is that I stay friends with them and won't take things further, knowing the inevitable "you're a nice guy, but..." will come.
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Old 27th April 2007, 02:25
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Well the first and only time I've been asked out I was 19, it lasted two weeks before he just went off somewhere. Next one when I was 28, it lasted five weeks before he ended it (no explanation why). Last one was when I was 30, it lasted approx 6 1/2 years and he ended it (again ). I'm hoping the next one will want to be with me for keeps
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Old 23rd May 2007, 10:18
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I was 18, we met over the internet (it's next to impossible to find a nice lesbian round where I live) we dated for 4 months, its took ages to get over her but I finally have. She was my first kiss, my first love, my first lover.
I did have a relationship with a guy before that, but I count it as a silly mistake due to the fact I'm a lesbian.
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Old 24th May 2007, 10:43
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I was 18 when I had my first boyfriend. Until then, I was utterly convinced I would stay single for the rest of my life.
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Old 28th May 2007, 03:24
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Never had never will etc...
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Old 28th May 2007, 10:06
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15 and it ended badly. Now I think i'm going to be single forever
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Old 31st May 2007, 21:50
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I'm 19 and still waiting (hoping) for a first encounter.
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Old 5th June 2007, 18:10
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I'm 24, never had one and probably never will...
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Old 5th June 2007, 20:02
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Well, I've not yet got a girlfriend, and I'm sure many young people with SA are also in my position. I did ask someone out once, but I was steadfastly rejected. I haven't spoken a word to them since.

Social inhibitions and love shyness prevent me from even going near girls at times, let alone initiating conversation with them

EDIT: Depending how tonight goes, this sanswer is subject to change
EDIT 2: ...maybe not
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Old 10th June 2007, 17:09
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... I don't know what to say, the crucial years of my life where you build conversational skills were killed by SA thus other guys soon jump in on the act and i'm out of the picture before I've even had a chance to talk. A shame
I don't think that SAD made it anymore difficult to speak to girls than it is for other guys. I'm just making the first steps myself, and slowly learning to cope with SAD, but from what I've seen most girls don't want deep and meaningfull conversation in club. Relax and go for it, you can only get better.

As for me 21 still waiting, wow its great to be able to say this!

Besides SAD, i was also in religious group that advocated celibacy Anyway, with that clique anymore.

Recently I decided to make a real effort to find someone, which I try to dress better, trying to make more friends, etc... I know you can't force it, after all it might just be around the next corner, but I'm convinced that if I go around as many corners as I can it will come to me sooner.
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Old 11th June 2007, 21:03
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I got my first proper boyfriend at 19 (the age I am now). KIK (a member here), is my OH half and I LOVE him to bits!
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Old 11th June 2007, 21:10
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I got my first proper boyfriend at 19 (the age I am now). KIK (a member here), is my OH half and I LOVE him to bits!
I met my first propr Girlfriend at 31 :O you know her.. its ClaireLou :P but I must say that the old saying is true.. " The best things come to those that wait " cause they certainly have for me
I love you to bits also my Angel
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Old 11th June 2007, 21:18
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Thats great for you KIK and MarieLou, you really seem to be in love!

It might just be that joining SAUK was the best thing i did, and i might find my first girlfriend here...


Any takers lol
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Old 11th June 2007, 21:23
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Perc...its ClaireLou LOL!

I'm sure you'll find someone, I never thought I would and I have.
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Old 8th August 2007, 19:05
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Is it me or does singledom feel worse in the summer..............??
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Old 30th August 2007, 22:26
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my first real girlfriend was 15, i had snogged a few before then but nothing too serious b4 then...i like girls.
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Old 30th August 2007, 22:27
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Is it me or does singledom feel worse in the summer..............??
No its gota be winter, id ditch the gf in the summer, and get a new one come winter when theres not much to do out!
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Old 31st August 2007, 13:07
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Had one I knew online and met once last year (15-16) but not had a proper one.
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Old 31st August 2007, 15:57
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No its gota be winter, id ditch the gf in the summer, and get a new one come winter when theres not much to do out!
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Old 31st August 2007, 23:46
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I've been in love twice, both amazing experiences but heartbreaking when they ended.

I met my first gf when i was 15 and she was 13, we met at school, we knew it was so right and that we truly believed it was forever so we ended up getting married, amazing first 10 years but then started to go wrong.. divorced 3 years ago after being together 15 years, totally devastated... met a girl a year after, fell in love but it only lasted 6 months, ended last summer... not had a relationship since because it just hasn't happened for me. However, i can say i have been in love, it's the most amazing experience in life (with the exception of seeing your children being born) being in love changes you completely, it brings the best out of you.. i sincerely miss it
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Old 20th September 2007, 20:56
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19. He's a member on here! *waves to KIK if he's around*
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Old 20th September 2007, 21:31
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19. He's a member on here! *waves to KIK if he's around*
Hiya.. Love you Angel..
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Old 19th October 2007, 22:40
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17, still no boyfriend yet...
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Old 19th October 2007, 22:45
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I was 16
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