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Old 25th May 2022, 11:17
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^ Are you still in hospital Mellie?
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Old 25th May 2022, 11:32
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Feeling so bad today I was going to do something stupid I phoned the doctor but can’t get in for two weeks, I generally don’t no if it’s worth it anymore to carry on or it’s time to say goodbye to the world, I’m not scared of doing it just worry I’ll fail and be stuck in hospital.
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Old 25th May 2022, 12:44
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^ This is the thing, you could injure yourself and end up in a difficult situation. Have you ever tried contacting the Samaritans when you feel that low? You can always post here, we will all listen to you.

You deserve to feel better and I know you did have some plans, like moving, in the shorter term. Can you concentrate on just taking things one day at a time for now?
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Old 25th May 2022, 14:10
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Thanks Dougella I'll try, I just don't like to bother anyone.
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Old 25th May 2022, 14:11
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I am still in hospital yes, but i dont think i can talk to staff here. i dont know who to trust
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Old 27th May 2022, 00:29
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I hope Quietman is ok, he doesn't seem to have been around today
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Old 27th May 2022, 00:37
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Yes he has been quiet today.
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Old 27th May 2022, 03:26
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hope he's ok
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Old 27th May 2022, 22:45
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^ Oh
I hope the reason Quietman has left is to pursue help and support elsewhere. I also hope he realised how much the folk here cared although I know that isn't a substitute for face to face interaction and friendship.
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Old 28th May 2022, 17:02
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Hi Guys

I was speaking to a mental health helpline and they said I should rejoin the forum because ive had a lot of support from the members, I left because I was having a really bad day and on that day I was going to take my life, If I haven't had talked to them I would not be here now.

Theres been more drama with my dad, he said my moms had affairs with four men, he took my phone and texted my moms oldest friend about it, so now she wont talk to me anymore its been a horrible time. I hope its ok to come back.
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Old 28th May 2022, 17:10
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^ Wow, I'm so glad you spoke to the mental health helpline Yes ofcourse it's ok for you to come back!
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Old 28th May 2022, 17:39
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Well done for talking to mental heath helpline, I'm glad they helped. good to have you back
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Old 28th May 2022, 17:42
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Thanks Dougella and Mellie and to everyone else who messaged. I hope your feeling better Mellie.
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Old 28th May 2022, 18:06
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^ Very glad you're still with us, Quietman
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Old 28th May 2022, 18:39
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Good to see you back Quietman
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Old 28th May 2022, 18:55
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Thanks Percy and Limey.
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Old 28th May 2022, 20:39
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Thanks Crafty Elf, I feel like its going to take a while with the grief, if I ever come back but ill try.
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Old 29th May 2022, 23:44
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I should be dead so everyone keeps telling me.
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Old 29th May 2022, 23:57
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^ I'm sure people don't mean to tell you that, do they?
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Old 30th May 2022, 00:27
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one girl said sorry to me after. why is everyone blaming my mental health, and teaming up on me it seems.
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Old 30th May 2022, 00:37
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Well, atleast someone apologised, it's an awful thing to say.
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Old 30th May 2022, 00:58
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my brother had a right go at me today feel so shit now
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Old 30th May 2022, 06:01
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im not going to get better in this hospital
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Old 30th May 2022, 10:49
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Quote:
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my brother had a right go at me today feel so shit now
What did he say?
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Old 30th May 2022, 11:14
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Sorry Mellie, my sister always has a go at me, I just switch off now and an old saying comes to my mind sticks and stones, take no notice.
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Old 30th May 2022, 11:26
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said snap out of your depression, and stop pushing your family away.
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Old 30th May 2022, 12:33
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^ That's not possible is it, it would be nice if people could snap out of depression but sadly they can't.
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Old 30th May 2022, 12:55
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no its like telling someone to snap out of having a broken leg....
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Old 30th May 2022, 13:03
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also said don't expect staff to help you ... i mean that's what staff are here for isn't it? not that they do much just give meds..
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Old 30th May 2022, 13:32
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^ I would of thought that the staff would want to help people, I mean that’s their job to support people to get to hopefully a brighter future, all these hospitals are all the same in my experience I’m sorry you are going through this Mellie I wish I could do more to help you.
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