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Old 7th December 2017, 15:04
Rianne Rianne is offline
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Rebka- that doesn***8217;t sound good! Hope you are ok.
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Old 7th December 2017, 15:05
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Clementine -
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Old 7th December 2017, 15:15
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I have no desire to do anything at all. Do most people go through life feeling like this and just get on with things anyway? I can't be bothered with even being conscious.
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Old 7th December 2017, 15:42
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Feel the same Merritt. Hope u feel better soon. Exhausted mentally emotionally and physically a lot of it down to my nbors issues. Try not to place blame but every human has a basic right to decent sleep overnight when they need.
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Old 7th December 2017, 15:44
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I feel sick and the side of my head, neck and jawís hurting. My Christmas tree pushed me off the ladder as I was dragging it down from the attic and I hit my head and neck on the edge of the bathtub at a really weird angle (the entrance to our attic is in the bathroom ) the treeís obviously possessed or something... by attic spirit demon thingies... treemons anyway, I was gonna put the tree up but I kinda donít feel like it now, ha! Iíll do it later
Jeez, rebka I hope you're alright missy. I'd give that tree a good kick or two if I was you.
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Old 7th December 2017, 17:01
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Shit -bad memories from being bullied at my old job keep resurfacing this week. Have strong urge to self harm but have avoided doing it so far. Will watch some comedy tonight to keep my mind off it.
Sorry you are getting flashbacks from being bullied at your old job. I presume these horrible people are out of your life for good now and you may hopefully move onto better things with nicer people around you. Watching a comedy or any form of distraction is good thing to do when you have thoughts of self harm. Look after yourself Pink Lady.




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I feel sick and the side of my head, neck and jawís hurting. My Christmas tree pushed me off the ladder as I was dragging it down from the attic and I hit my head and neck on the edge of the bathtub at a really weird angle (the entrance to our attic is in the bathroom ) the treeís obviously possessed or something... by attic spirit demon thingies... treemons anyway, I was gonna put the tree up but I kinda donít feel like it now, ha! Iíll do it later

I hope are feeling a little better after you accident Rebka?
I hope you werenít on your own when you climbed the ladder and were trying to drag the tree down from the attic. If you hit your head quite hard and the sickness and pain in your head, neck and jaw is still painful then you should have it checked out with the Doc, just to be on the safe side x




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^ Muggins, could you not just ask them if they're doing okay - in general terms? If you get a happy and polite response, surely that should put your mind at rest as to them not being upset with you?


I feel a bit useless. I'm trying to work out why it is I have such a hard time starting essays. Today is deadline day (I've already wasted a four week extension) and while I've at least looked at the question this time, I still haven't started. Maybe it's a confidence issue. Or a fear of failure. Or simply just bone idleness

Well, even if i contact them and receive a happy and polite response it might just mean that theyíve forgiven me off sorts but it wonít stop me feeling bad that I may have upset them in the first place!


I hope you manage to find the motivation to start on your essay, Kooky Monster. I would reckon your reluctance to start is a combination of a lack of confidence and a fear of failure, definitely not laziness! I used to be the same when I had to write long essays for the OU. Iíd always leave it to the last minute as it felt so daunting. Breaking it down into smaller chunks sometimes helped . Good luck!

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^^ I get you Muggins, there's a guy I think doesn't like me I always feel uncomfortable when I see him and I'm not sure if I'm imagining it or we started off on the wrong foot or he senses my weirdness and avoids me or what the heck it could be.
I have no idea but all I can say is try not to overthink too much and I know that's hard to as i'm guilty of it myself x.
Thanks Purplesnarf.
Maybe the guy you think doesnít like you is just shy with you and youíre interpreting his lack of friendliness as not liking you when he may indeed like you or at least be indifferent to you. Or if he actually doesnít like you then heís an idiot and a to him !

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Muggins, I canít imagine that you have upset anybody. In my opinion youíre far too thoughtful to have done something to upset someone. Believe your hubby when he tells you that youíre worrying over nothing, because I agree with him and Iím sure that you are!!



Ps. Am going to google egocentricist or whatever it is, to see what one of those is. Iím pretty sure youíre not one though!!!!
Aww, thanks NW

Well, I have really upset people in the past, not intentionally but nonetheless they believed it was intentional Sometimes I struggle to find the right words and things come out the wrong way. My hubby wasnít being unkind when he said I was being an egocentrist. I think he was just trying to say that not everything is about me. When someone is upset, or this that and the other, I automatically think itís because of something that Iíve done when in reality such people probably barely notice my existence let alone given me a moments thought.
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Old 7th December 2017, 17:15
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^ I know he wasn***8217;t being unkind. My mum used to constantly tell me everything ***8220;wasn***8217;t about me***8221; when I started to stress over things. I agree that people really don***8217;t think about us in either a negative or positive way half as much as we believe that they do!
I don***8217;t think my mum ever really understood my insecurities. In fact, I think she was irritated by them. It***8217;s ironic, in that quite a few of them were put in by her in the first place!!!!
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Old 7th December 2017, 18:17
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Thanks for the hugs

@Muggins I***8217;m sure you***8217;re just overthinking, I do it often too though

I***8217;m feeling dreadful today, just keep crying.
I really don***8217;t know what***8217;s come over me I don***8217;t feel as if I can move, it***8217;s like everything is too heavy.
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Old 7th December 2017, 18:35
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^ hugs did your delivery show up?
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Old 7th December 2017, 21:51
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Thank you Muggins.

Foolish. I hid in the toilet for half an hour today crying and I couldn't stop. I was also shaking and having a panic attack. I came out of the toilet and my manager was waiting outside for me. She was very nice and asked if I was ok and if I wanted a chat. I said I was ok and thanked her for asking. I felt calmer then and the rest of the day went fine.
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Old 7th December 2017, 23:30
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^ ^ Iím glad that the day improved for you as it went along Pink Lady Itís good that you seem to be working with much nicer people than you were with at your last place.


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^ I know he wasnít being unkind. My mum used to constantly tell me everything ďwasnít about meĒ when I started to stress over things. I agree that people really donít think about us in either a negative or positive way half as much as we believe that they do!
I donít think my mum ever really understood my insecurities. In fact, I think she was irritated by them. Itís ironic, in that quite a few of them were put in by her in the first place!!!!
Gosh, NW, our mums sound very similar in many ways!
My mum also used to say the exact same thing as yours Ďthat not everything was about meí. I cant say it ever made me feel any better though


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@Muggins Iím sure youíre just overthinking, I do it often too though

Iím feeling dreadful today, just keep crying.
I really donít know whatís come over me I donít feel as if I can move, itís like everything is too heavy.
Thanks Clementine x
Sometimes a good cry can be quite cathartic, I hope it will be this way for you. Since going on the ecitalopram I donít seem to cry so easily and I canít say I like it because sometimes crying is a good release for all of those pent up emotions.
Anyway, I hope tomorrow is a better day for you
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Old 7th December 2017, 23:34
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^ Thanks, sweetheart Are you feeling any better?
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Old 8th December 2017, 00:49
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Head***8217;s pounding and I can***8217;t sleep
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Old 8th December 2017, 01:11
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^ Got anything to take for the headache? The radio's got me through a lot of lonely sleepless nights. There's a Brian Wilson thing on 6 Music at the mo
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Old 8th December 2017, 06:44
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^^^ hope you get some sleep soon.

^ glad you are OK... those trees are sneaky, all looking innocent and pretending they can't move until they get their opportunity to attack.
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Old 8th December 2017, 07:49
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^^ Thanks, Al

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^ Got anything to take for the headache? The radio's got me through a lot of lonely sleepless nights. There's a Brian Wilson thing on 6 Music at the mo
Aww, Iíd have liked that. I got some broken sleep but kept having bad dreams.
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Old 8th December 2017, 08:40
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^^ when January 6th comes they all die, shedding their needles in the driveways of their victims...
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Old 8th December 2017, 08:54
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Brand new day, not enough sleep
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Old 8th December 2017, 09:14
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Brand new day, not enough sleep
Me neither, I had a few bad dreams, one about an evil spirit in a microwave Also my dog kept waking me up trying to get under the covers because it was cold. I wouldn***8217;t mind but she gets too hot after about half an hour and clambers over me to get out again. This repeats throughout the night

I***8217;m feeling cold and groggy and kinda sad.
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Old 8th December 2017, 16:14
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Glad to be home. Went to town after volunteering, stopped of at the rubbish tip/recycling centre managed to make a right tit of myself
Went into sainsburys - sooo busy. 20 mins+ in the queue for the till which then promptly crashed, so my shopping was then moved to the next till (and all the ppl behinds) and then that till crashed again all my shopping was moved by a chain of staff. Then the SD card I purchased wouldn't scan and had to wait ages for someone to come and help. Gave him my parking card which wouldn't scan so he used a different till. Course I got to the machine and the barrier and nope not accepted. So had to wait ages for some one to rescue me with a big queue forming behind. I did begin to think I am never going to get out of here.

Oh and I apparently shoplifted some garlic

I remember now why I love online shopping so much!
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Old 8th December 2017, 17:08
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shoplifting garlic Mo34. You'll be on crimewatch next.
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Old 8th December 2017, 17:16
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Old 8th December 2017, 17:18
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@Mo that sounds like an absolute nightmare!!
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Old 8th December 2017, 17:19
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shoplifting garlic Mo34. You'll be on crimewatch next.
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Old 8th December 2017, 17:38
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@Mo that sounds like an absolute nightmare!!
Thanks . It was certainly a SA nightmare! You have no idea how long I was there!
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Old 9th December 2017, 01:00
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^

Lonely as always, and foolish.
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Old 9th December 2017, 01:39
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Bloated
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Old 9th December 2017, 02:39
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I hope you feel better soon.
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Old 9th December 2017, 08:19
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A bit rubbish. Sometimes everything just feels like such a battle.
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Old 9th December 2017, 08:32
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@ Kooky Minster - sounds like you have such a lot on your plate right now - you must be feeling physically and emotionally exhausted
I hope you get an opportunity some time today to cuddle up with your cats and take a much needed nap

@ Clementine - Sorry you are feeling rubbish this morning.
Life does indeed seem to be one long battle! I hope the day improves for you though



A difficult day ahead of me, not helped by the fact that I haven***8217;t slept a single wink
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