How is everyone feeling? (31)

[Dougella]

^ I think it's fine to do what you feel best with. No-one would mind at all if you did fall into a wailing heap, I think I would feel exactly the same in your situation.

[anxiouslondoner]

^^

[Consolida]

^/^^/^^^ Thank you x

Feeling like I have no tears left
I went to to see my mum for the very last time today and was able to give her one final kiss. Although I'm not a religious person it comforts me to tell myself that we'll be together again someday.

[Dougella]

^

[Tubbs]

@Consolida thinking of you X

[Azalea]

@Consolida

[Rocket Spud]

Apart from everything else, now, also jobless.

[Dougella]

^ Mr Spud! How come, what's happened with your job?

[Rocket Spud]

Hey, Dougella!

My rounds got merged into surrounding areas and 'no longer exist'. Management offered somewhere else but, nah. I need to move on anyway - sink or swim time, lol.

[Percy]

Sorry to hear you're losing your job Rocket Spud.

[Rocket Spud]

Thanks, Percy!

I'm really, really gonna miss it, for many reasons, but there was always a risk of change happening beyond my control - losing the entire area, that i've served for ages.... really, it's hard to take.

[biscuits]

Rocket Spud!!!!

We performed a ritual to bring you back on pancake day. I'm so glad it took just over two weeks to work

[Existential Jam]

^^ It's true, she did. It involved talking to a potatoe and sacrificing iguanas.

R.I.P Iguana Greg. We'll meet again in Valhalla, my friend. But not yet, not yet.

[Rocket Spud]

Heyyoo, biscuits! How's yer bum, luv?

Ooh, so that was you! Yes, i did feel some slight summoning around that time, very odd feeling.

[Rocket Spud]

^^ Jam

[biscuits]

^ it's been so good - no trapped wind throughout the whole of 2022! Hope your bum is as equally well behaved, luv

sorry things are a bit rubbish job wise, but it could be the start of something new and exciting :D

[Rocket Spud]

Ha, just the regular 'happenings', nothing to worry about.

Yes, that's the view i'm taking.... with a massive dollop of doom in the mix. I really dislike change and have no faith in myself.

[Consolida]

@ Dougella, Tubbs and Azalea - Thank you so much for the hugs


@ Rocket Spud - Sorry to hear that you're losing your job
It's sometimes said that when one door closes another door opens and I'm sure all sorts of positive and exciting things lay ahead for you


Feeing incredibly sad but relieved that the day of the funeral went as well as such a day can. The spring sunshine was glorious. It was lovely seeing some of the significant people in my mum's life and hearing their stories and recollections at the Wake afterwards but also desperately sad that my mum wasn't there to enjoy it.

People really should make more of an effort to visit those that they supposedly care about while they are living because tomorrow isn't promised to anyone.

Now I need to figure out how the hell I'm going to continue forward with my life without my beloved mum in it

[Percy]

Glad to hear the funeral went well missy.

[magnolia]

Fed up of the mess here.

Partner still decorating the hall. Still sanding the walls and dust is getting everywhere , I hate it.
The lounge is a mess , as we've moved few bits of furniture , his tools are lying around. I just want it all done

[Rocket Spud]

Thanks, Consolida. Sorry to hear of your mum's passing.

Yeah, 'doors opening' - they aren't all good.

[Dougella]

Good to hear the funeral went well Consolida

[Alone.]

Anxious, I’m meeting a relative and her son next week, have never met her. She knew me when I was a baby though. I’m worried I would be a disappointment.

[Alone.]

It’s good to hear the funeral went well Consolida.

[Rocket Spud]

Cheers, Lee!

[Consolida]

Thank you Percy, Dougella, Rocket Spud, Lee and nothing_special.



This pain is the worst I've ever felt in my life.

[biscuits]

^ sorry Consolida I became overwhelmed with spud that I didn't see your posts. I'm ever so sorry. Losing someone we love so much is.... there aren't any words for the feelings. I really hope that when you are ready that you can reach out for some support. It feels like there is no support that will make a difference but grief support is more about acknowledgement of feelings without the intention of trying to make anyone feel better because you can only feel what you feel. It's more about supporting through the process and tailored to you. Sending you lots of love

[Percy]

Originally Posted by Consolida

Thank you Percy, Dougella, Rocket Spud, Lee and nothing_special.



This pain is the worst I've ever felt in my life.

Aw Consolida, i'll shoot those horrible feelings for you.

[newbs16]

^^^ Thinking of you, bet your mum would of been proud of you today.

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[Azalea]

@Consolida I'm glad the funeral went well, sending hugs.