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I guess my views are slightly jaded by the areas I work in. |
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I think you have a somewhat cynical view of people seeking diagnosis. I've never heard anyone go forward with getting assessed because they thought it would mean they could get benefits. Most people seem to have had significant difficulties before having an autism assessment and for kids they usually have to have evidence from school or nursery that there are significant problems and signs that their teachers or other staff have picked up on. |
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^ I don't see it as playing the system, I just see it as people being able to work in the ways that they need for the conditions that they have. You always sound like you're good at your job, so seems like everyone wins in that scenario to me.
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^ I've discovered that the least important thing in my job is actually doing a good job. As ridiculous as that may seem.
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Posting this cause it might help others: https://www.ne-as.org.uk/News/charit...-opportunities
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g6ijmcJPX9Y
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And then there have been serial killers and criminals who would appear completely normal or charming. I am actually glad that people challenged the comment because it sometimes seems like a trend where someone would comment on an undesirable trait to our society, being socially awkward, quiet, not showing much emotion and link that to the person committing a horrific crime. |
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Interviews are incredibly challenging. Despite being okay in interviews (because I know how to prepare for them and have developed strategies to painfully push through extreme anxiety) I can't actually imagine going for an interview again! It might be better to hold recruitment days where people spend some time being trained and working and seeing how they get on, rather than a sit down interview. |
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I find holding a job harder, even if I seem to do the job well due to not fitting in with the work team and feeling socially excluded as a result.
I think I need a job environment where I don’t worry about whether or not I fit in. |
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^ hope you find a nice place I still can't get over that place where everyone ate together and you and one other person weren't invited. I think about that regularly. For some reason it's really affected me. It's just horrible!
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^I think it's something that can be brushed off if you don't have the expectations. It's like with work experience at different places I have a bit higher expectations as to what to expect sometimes. I think this video further pushed me to quit. Lots of people commented how it was unfair that the dishwashers didn't get the staff meal.
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They work hard and are a key component of any successful kitchen. Everyone gets it or no one does, imo. Sometimes it comes from "well, I never got x when I was a dishwasher" or the hierarchy of that particular environment.
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Based on my own diagnosis I'd say a lot of people I've known in life would be diagnosed autistic too based on skills related to engineering. 18% of our workforce work in engineering and I'd guess from the majority I've met they're mostly on the spectrum but mostly couldn't give a toss about being given a label as they're too busy making things and being focused on their work to care. 30% of adults with an NHS diagnosis certainly but 30% of all uk autistics, nope not a chance. If all the autistics suddenly stopped working there'd be no trains, planes or anything remotely technical working, the world would fall apart instantly. All you'd have is a few neurotypicals sat around trying to work out how a wheel works and how to make fire. |
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^ yes, the stats can only be from adults who report having a diagnosis.
You're right that a lot of people haven't got a diagnosis in adulthood for various reasons. But only 30% of people who reported having a diagnosis being in work highlights how hard it can be to get a job and to find a job that is flexible and neuroinclusive. |
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What help is actually available once you get a diagnosis?
I've actually head stories about people losing access to mental health services after an autism diagnosis. Is seeking a diagnosis more about finally putting a name to what is wrong with you? I'm not sure I'd find that helpful. I'm still going to have these difficulties no matter what name you call it. I wouldn't see it as some sort of massive revelation and it wouldn't change how I feel about myself. |
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I would only want a diagnosis as the first step towards receiving further treatment. What sort of services are people referred to? What sort of therapeutic treatments are available?
The though of getting a diagnosis and being immediately discharged doesn't make sense. So that's it? All I'm getting is a label? I've asked for help and I'm basically being told there's nothing they can do and I just have to accept living such an incredibly dysfunctional existence where I'm constantly overwhelmed? Couldn't they at least give me the telephone number for Dignitas? I don't have a "superpower". I can't think of any way I've benefitted from being who I am. I don't have any special talents or a specialist subject I excel at. I can't relate to any of the positive things people on the spectrum talk about, I just suck at being normal. |
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^ I don't think there are specific therapeutic treatments for autism, more for things that might go alongside it like anxiety and depression and other mental health disorders. It might be worth looking at the National Autistic Society website for more accurate information though.
https://www.autism.org.uk/ Having a diagnosis can help you with accessing workplace adjustments and things like that. In some places there are post diagnosis groups available to go to, but it's all a bit patchy it seems. (Not all autistic people have a "superpower", in fact I think most people who have a diagnosis would probably say they don't. We know you have skills and talents though, you designed the SAUK logo!) |
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Sounds like emotional unstable personality disorder, the whole discharge you as soon as they give you the label ..... Sigh
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^ bollocks to that I'm autistic and I'm great.
Plus I've done well in life so ya boo sucks to that miserable theory. There's just as many unsuccessful neurotypicals in life. |
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^ There are a lot of very successful autistic people! Obviously the stereotype is a lot of them are engineers and scientists but also I read that one of the most common occupations for autistic people is medicine (make of that what is you will!)
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I'm not exactly a fan of his, but Elon Musk seems to have done pretty well for himself.
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I was actually irritated and responded how there are a lot of autistic engineers because that felt patronising. I think there is some truth in the post though but it’s just one side to autism and there are autistic people who are also successful. |
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^ It's not really fair to call autistic people who struggle in life losers either.
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