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Sending another member a message???
Ok am I the only person who pays attention at what people post and think ooh that person sounds interesting I'll just send them a message and get to know them a bit better then freak the heck out in cae they think I'm stalking them
Or is it just me being weird again lol |
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ive had a few private messages and them visitor message things, but ive never initiated a single one especially women, id feel a right stalker/pervert/creep etc dunno if i have a valid reason for men... |
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Cavegirl that's excatly what I'm thinking how else would I kow people if I don't make first move? It feels almost like an extension of real life where I want to get to know people but back of in case they think I'm pestering them. |
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So basically this is just another SAD thing? ok I know its not funny but it's making me laugh in a sad way hw we all want to make new friends because e all have something in common but that one thing is also holding us back
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I'd like to see mine pop up and say you got a message too lol Vince you're probably right now who to send message to lol |
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or someone else can bat me to it lol |
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It's always a nice surprise when I recieve a pm, I assume most people will feel the same.
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I send out messages to all the socially anxious hot ladies I fancy on here... ops, sorry forgot this is not a dating website.
Seriously though, if you like something they have written, want advice or hold a similar interest I'm sure they will appreciate a compliment, there's no harm in making conversation if the intention is just chat and friendship but don't always expect a reply back and take offence. |
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I have messaged people on here and others have me either way it's a good thing. When I've pm'ed someone it's normally after reading a thread or post never just random. Either way it doesn't bother me aslong as theirs no hidden agenda (i.e. the sort that may use the forum to look for women then pm every woman they come across kinda of thing)
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I'm an unsociable a-hole so any attempt to be friendly is always painfully forced and it shows even online.
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I don't think I've sent any messages to people first who aren't on my friends list. I probably don't because I like to 'click' with someone and if I think I do over the forum then I'll start talking to them.
It is nice to get a surprising message in your inbox from people you've barely spoken too :D |
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Anyone can send me a message about anything, I don't mind at all.
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I get loads of messages from females surprisingly for advice tbh. |
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Any PMs I get tend to be from mods. I don't see the point in random PMs to be honest. Difficult to think of any reasons I would contact someone and vice versa.
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Getting a PM is only slightly less exciting than getting a text message for me but then that probably says more about the state of my life currently than anything else.
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It's very rare for me to be the messagee rather than the messenger so I wouldn't know. I don't think it's too stalkerish to send messages. It can be stalkerish though when people find me hiding in a tree spying on them. While eating butter. I do love my butter.
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I often feel like PMing somebody that I think I have things in common with, or that I admire from their posts, but I rarely PM first. I can't remember if there was a time when I did, but I sure don't now. I guess I worry that I'm bothering them and that we may not have anything to talk about after all. There are people here I've wanted to talk to but they'll never know! I can be quite crap at replying too, messages take a lot of brainwork lol. =/
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I don't mind getting messages from either sex to be honest wouldn't think it weird if it was from a male. I got a message today yay |
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I had 4 messages today!.... well they were a bit old as I've been gone for a bit.
But it still counts I guess. As for PM'ing people I don't PM people first really, I'm not a good talker and don't like getting close to people either so its a vicious circle. :p |
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Well they were mainly asking where I was. I'm still a billy no mates, just they probably wanted something from me. *fights having friends* I don't want em! |
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When I first joined the forum I did send a few people PMs. One person specifically told me they were not interested in receiving PMs/making potential friends from this site, despite them being a regular poster on the forum.
I like receiving PMs and in particular one person that PM'd me first I have regular contact with |
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To be honest I can't be bothered. It never goes anywhere anyway.
Just a bland exchange of generic questions. |
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i like writing to people so feel free to write to me if you want a penfriend
tim |
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I never used to send messages but I do a lot more now, though like others I still feel like I'm annoying people if I message them. I don't think anyone's ever replied saying they don't want to talk (though some have declined chatting on Instant Messengers), but sometimes it seems like they're just replying out of politeness not because they want to chat. I guess I do tend to message more women than men, but I think that's understandable really.
I prefer chatting in chatrooms or IM to messages on here though. It's too slow...I much prfer to interact at a conversational pace, but getting the guts to message someone is the first step. Can't say I've made many friends from it though. Maybe one a year at best. |