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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 22nd February 2019, 00:10
Replies: 181
Views: 13,663
Posted By GoldFish
Re: Longterm unemployed and I love it

True!!

However, you're on a social anxiety forum, and I would say, people with SA issues, especially long term would find modern day communication requirements hard to impossible sometimes, they...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 17th February 2019, 11:22
Replies: 181
Views: 13,663
Posted By GoldFish
Re: Longterm unemployed and I love it

This is the issue of working in the service industries, sometimes health, food, sales, anything that has a high-stress quota. Any job can be like this. But some industries can be pretty consistent.
...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 17th February 2019, 11:14
Replies: 181
Views: 13,663
Posted By GoldFish
Re: Longterm unemployed and I love it

I wish I was, to be honest. Even just part-time. I used to do part-time and I loved it compared to full time. Full time I felt like I was barely existing and mostly burnt out and tired.

I'm a...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 4th January 2019, 23:29
Replies: 16
Views: 2,083
Posted By GoldFish
Re: No friends

Y'know there is a difference between relaxing and being in a state of chronic procrastination because of the fear of failure, this is why many people struggle as adults. It's very common and it's...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 4th January 2019, 23:00
Replies: 2
Views: 1,501
Posted By GoldFish
Re: Colleague blowing hot and cold

I agree that the criticising would be annoying. I prefer encouraging training over negative criticism, aside from that I don't really see the problem. Although the criticism could be because he gets...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 11th December 2018, 12:21
Replies: 0
Views: 1,121
Posted By GoldFish
Anxiety at Work and Forgetfulness..

I find work really hard the longer you stay somewhere. Because of hierarchies and politics and intimidation.

I work a pretty stressful retail job. Anyway, you are expected to do the job of 3-4...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 8th December 2018, 11:59
Replies: 19
Views: 2,145
Posted By GoldFish
Forum: Club 30-81 5th December 2018, 07:04
Replies: 1,046
Views: 211,497
Posted By GoldFish
Re: You know you're getting old when..

Lord of the Rings trilogy was filmed 20 years ago.

Tame Impala is an old band from "Like ten years ago man", "that is like, so old"...."y'know, gosh, they must be ancient".

I still think of...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 28th November 2018, 23:49
Replies: 5
Views: 1,373
Posted By GoldFish
Re: Stuck in a Rut!

thanks for all the suggestions..

I think you're right, it's probably just a perceptual problem I have that something can't be done to find a solution, so that's a very defeatist mindset rather...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 28th November 2018, 01:35
Replies: 5
Views: 1,373
Posted By GoldFish
Stuck in a Rut!

Having a shocking time.

I live with my parents and pay board, but I really want to quit the retail job that I've had for 6 years. Full time. Completely burnt out, as in, I can see my health being...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 4th October 2018, 07:39
Replies: 12
Views: 2,348
Posted By GoldFish
Re: What are your sources of discomfort in social situations?

I love silence. In fact i like people who can do both!!
They can be content with quietness and they can say what's on their mind if they want to as well. They can be silly/fun and they are also...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 15th September 2018, 14:35
Replies: 21
Views: 2,939
Posted By GoldFish
Re: Anyone scared of people they find attractive?

Nope!
Used to, but not these days.

Firstly, remember that if you were to work with these people on a daily basis, side by side, you would quickly just get used to them as people and the whole...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 15th September 2018, 14:24
Replies: 5
Views: 1,976
Posted By GoldFish
Re: Scared about having to try and find a new job

One of the reasons I get stuck in jobs I don't enjoy at all, is that the pain of that routine seems easier than finding a new job that would require, references, interviews and something new and...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 22nd August 2018, 05:55
Replies: 27
Views: 4,770
Posted By GoldFish
Re: How do you guys accept you're not liked by many people?

I think what it is, is this...
it's an intimidating factor that sensitive types while facing highly functional socialites. It's a very difficult thing to endure for the objectively indifferent quiet...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 24th June 2018, 14:42
Replies: 18
Views: 2,829
Posted By GoldFish
Re: The world revolving around Facebook?

It really comes down to your own experience..

If you have really sociable brothers and sisters, then they might be encouraging enough to get you signed up, or chatty friends at university, or at...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 9th June 2018, 01:56
Replies: 8
Views: 1,950
Posted By GoldFish
Re: Those who have large gaps on your CV, how did you explain it to potential employe

You could say that you spent some time working for the family, unpaid. Cleaning jobs, Mowing.

Short courses.

Travel.

Freelancing.

Don't lie necessarily, but the whole point is a Resume...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 8th June 2018, 12:36
Replies: 1
Views: 1,733
Posted By GoldFish
Re: Improving everything else first, and it's benefits

Thanks everyone! :)
Glad you got something out of it, but I think it***8217;s important to really fine tune your physical world so that it***8217;s organised and provides comfort in the areas you spend the most...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 7th June 2018, 13:38
Replies: 1
Views: 1,733
Posted By GoldFish
Improving everything else first, and it's benefits

So I've been trying the method of improving everything else in the hope that it helps with boosting confidence when tackling SA/Shyness. Because improving on the things we find easy and can have some...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 7th June 2018, 13:15
Replies: 5
Views: 1,985
Posted By GoldFish
Re: Running a business with Social Anxiety

The popularity of a product, logo and service sells a formula of good customer service and quality standards, but not necessarily popularity of a person running the business. Unless you are a...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 7th June 2018, 13:02
Replies: 16
Views: 3,192
Posted By GoldFish
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 7th June 2018, 12:59
Replies: 16
Views: 3,192
Posted By GoldFish
Re: Workplace negativity and gossip

Precisely the reason why I am looking for "introverted" job roles. Have enjoyed the experience of "craziness" that is the busy, confused mess of customer service/retail. The noise of it all has been...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 17th April 2017, 01:05
Replies: 0
Views: 1,128
Posted By GoldFish
Cool Having fun/banter/being cool..

I notice that at work everyone who does well, whether its a supervisor/manager or a person that does well to network has these traits..

How do people do it???

Banter requires a lot of general...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 5th December 2016, 11:59
Replies: 15
Views: 2,260
Posted By GoldFish
Re: Social etiquette and the effects of isolation

This is purely from my observations of being in groups amongst confident personalities, and i will say that i'm certainly no where near practicing what i have to say here:..

firstly, mindfulness,...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 6th November 2016, 09:22
Replies: 32
Views: 4,152
Posted By GoldFish
Re: Feeling really unliked by everyone and low in self-confidence

Completely relate to you OP...on every level...

Confident social types have this sixth sense of interaction that I just do not understand nor do I really fit into...

An example is, I'm with...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 29th October 2016, 13:13
Replies: 14
Views: 3,103
Posted By GoldFish
Re: Lack of 'banter'- Root of my anxiety and depression

take it from someone who has been terrible at banter for years and just stays quiet...

I've recently been engaging in banter, just keep it simple, try to mindfully think of stuff to say as if it's...
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