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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 7th January 2006, 19:27
Replies: 38
Views: 3,257
Posted By Roberto
Re: Please tell me I'm not the only one who can't go shopping!

Been there, done that. Especially bad at checkouts, as my voice becomes all messed up, and sometimes I can barely hear myself speak, of course this annoys the person behind the cashier's stand, as...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 7th January 2006, 19:17
Replies: 8
Views: 1,793
Posted By Roberto
Re: Fear of rejection

Yeah I know how that feels, but the thing is we make it out to be alot worse then it really is. Not everyone can like you, and one just has to accept this. But the thing is, people like us, even gets...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 5th January 2006, 08:24
Replies: 22
Views: 2,541
Posted By Roberto
Re: i don't know what to say...

Here I dont have any problems expressing myself, as I know that I'm among people who understands what I go through. But on other boards/forums I often write posts, then don't bother to post those...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 5th January 2006, 08:15
Replies: 7
Views: 1,670
Posted By Roberto
Re: depression- any tips?

Yeah that meeting girls thing :rolleyes: :D

The best way to work through depression is to do something constructive, which makes you feel better and makes you believe that every step you take...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 5th January 2006, 08:05
Replies: 34
Views: 4,037
Posted By Roberto
Re: I love honest girls/I hate myself (please respond)

I'm sorry to bring this topic back up again, its now gone almost a week since I've seen her, and given up, and I still really miss her http://img24.photobucket.com/albums/v72/pagan-poetry/frown.gif I...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 3rd January 2006, 21:20
Replies: 21
Views: 2,659
Posted By Roberto
Re: What can and can't you do?

If I am feeling good about myself, I can do just about everything, if I am not, I can do jackshit. But I'm trying to change this, so basically I need to feel good about myself, but the problem is, to...
Forum: Room with a View 1st January 2006, 21:53
Replies: 4
Views: 1,834
Posted By Roberto
Re: well done, to those from hell

Thats true, only by trying can one know.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 1st January 2006, 17:08
Replies: 3
Views: 1,496
Posted By Roberto
Re: When people look up to you/envy you

Maybe I do, but I am always analyzing everything I say or do, so I always find something negative about it, and then I believe that I have done something wrong. Its a vicious cycle, that has been...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 1st January 2006, 17:04
Replies: 8
Views: 1,721
Posted By Roberto
Re: Situations you feel could have changed your life

I've never talked to my brother about how he overcame his shyness. We never talk about stuff like that. When I'm with my brothers, I'm perfectly normal, and they don't even know that I am socially...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 31st December 2005, 22:23
Replies: 3
Views: 1,496
Posted By Roberto
When people look up to you/envy you

I know some guys who envies me for various things. Some envy me because of the good job I have, and a couple of guys at work envies me because of my youth. They often tell me how they'd love to be in...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 31st December 2005, 22:13
Replies: 8
Views: 1,721
Posted By Roberto
Situations you feel could have changed your life

My older brother actually suffered somewhat from SA too in the past. But he changed himself, he beat it. Or maybe he wasn't suffering from SA, but he often felt like an outcast, just as I did. He was...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 31st December 2005, 21:45
Replies: 34
Views: 4,037
Posted By Roberto
Re: I love honest girls/I hate myself (please respond)

Whether I have masterbated or not, is irrelevant here. And yes I have had sex before, but its not the physical thing I'm after. I want that love crap. I don't want to go out there and have sex with...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 31st December 2005, 14:26
Replies: 34
Views: 4,037
Posted By Roberto
Re: I love honest girls/I hate myself (please respond)

This is not about looks, she gave me stares, she found me physcially attractive, she showed clear signs of wanting to get to know me better. Its about my anxiety kicking in whenever I meet a cute...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th December 2005, 19:43
Replies: 34
Views: 4,037
Posted By Roberto
Re: I love honest girls/I hate myself (please respond)

First of all, I'd like to thank everyone for replying. :)

When I wrote that previous post, I was really psyched up, I really wanted to go there, and get back into it, so to say, if I met her then...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th December 2005, 15:22
Replies: 34
Views: 4,037
Posted By Roberto
Re: I love honest girls/I hate myself (please respond)

So no suggestions about what I should do? I'm thinking of going there in about 3 to 4 hours. I've promised myself to not get nervous and just act like a regular customer. If I see her there, I'll try...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 28th December 2005, 22:54
Replies: 34
Views: 4,037
Posted By Roberto
Re: I love honest girls/I hate myself (please respond)

Today I met my therapist, and I send her a message the day she did not call me, so we talked aobut it. She knows the full story. So she asked me, why do you think she didn't call you? And I started...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 28th December 2005, 22:54
Replies: 34
Views: 4,037
Posted By Roberto
Re: I love honest girls/I hate myself (please respond)

I'm dividing this in 2 posts, I hope this doesn't cause a problem, as otherwise it might seem too long, and it happened during 2 days. I'd appreciate it, if you guys took your time to read through...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 28th December 2005, 21:39
Replies: 34
Views: 4,037
Posted By Roberto
Re: I love honest girls/I hate myself (please respond)

I am not saying that I am a great looking guy. I know that I'm a guy with normal/decent looks. I never claimed to be a hunk. So I don't need any confirmation on that. The problem is not that she did...
Forum: Room with a View 27th December 2005, 16:04
Replies: 1
Views: 1,881
Posted By Roberto
Re: recognition from a girl?

You lucky bastard. :D So whats the latest progress?
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 27th December 2005, 15:41
Replies: 5
Views: 1,329
Posted By Roberto
Re: Thinking of quitting CBT

Maybe I'll tell her that. At the moment, I'm so depressed and mad at myself, because of what has gone down between me and that girl (well its mostly from my part, she probably/most likely doesnt even...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 27th December 2005, 15:39
Replies: 25
Views: 3,763
Posted By Roberto
Re: Hiding fact you have no friends

Yeah that definitley brings back memories. I used to just sit at one place looking in empty space. But then a "former" friend of mine, would come over and ask why I was sitting there, and such. Some...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 26th December 2005, 23:45
Replies: 25
Views: 3,763
Posted By Roberto
Re: Hiding fact you have no friends

Yeah, I do this all the time. Hell, I even made up a girlfriend or two. :rolleyes: :D I do this sort of stuff to seem as normal as possible to people.

But of course I have no friends, and I sure...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 26th December 2005, 23:05
Replies: 5
Views: 1,329
Posted By Roberto
Re: Thinking of quitting CBT

Yeah maybe I did have too high expectations, but what I find really annnoying is that she treats me like I was made out of glass, and I really hate it when people do that.

I'm an anxious looser,...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 26th December 2005, 19:47
Replies: 34
Views: 4,037
Posted By Roberto
Re: I love honest girls/I hate myself (please respond)

This is right, I can't stop thinking about this girl. :(

I was there this Friday, but I did not see her. I think one of her colleagues said hello from far away, but I'm not sure. This is another...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 26th December 2005, 19:43
Replies: 14
Views: 2,289
Posted By Roberto
Re: When u get that Anx. Feeling

I guess one way to describe that feeling would be to say that you don't want to be in a situation where another person controls your emotions/feelings. And since we are suffering from SA, I guess...
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