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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 24th May 2011, 12:24
Replies: 45
Views: 4,573
Posted By Everleigh
Re: Are you happy or sad?

exactly.
I find I am happiest when i am not thinking about myself. I find though when I stop and think about my life I get pretty depressed over how my goals have crashed and burned. I have had...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 23rd May 2011, 11:05
Replies: 29
Views: 17,580
Posted By Everleigh
Re: Struggling to find someone on the same wavelength as you?

I have not been on here on ages but I saw this thread and thought I would reply as I feel like this all the time. I find I don't click with people. The thing is though, its not that I necessarily...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 15th January 2011, 01:05
Replies: 78
Views: 7,023
Posted By Everleigh
Re: List your special qualities, great features only!

I have been told I am a lovely person quite a lot.
I am a decent person.
Caring.


Looks wise I have been told I have nice eyes and very unusual 'almond shaped'.
and nice skin like velvet...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 15th January 2011, 00:52
Replies: 11
Views: 2,012
Posted By Everleigh
Re: therapy seems to work for other things but not sa.

hi jerry
excuse the delay in replying ive felt to depressed to come on mental health sites lately.
anyways. your post is really wise,.
you have a very high level of insight into your own problems...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 26th December 2010, 11:23
Replies: 11
Views: 2,012
Posted By Everleigh
Re: therapy seems to work for other things but not sa.

exactly right.

yeah i guess ive just realised it seems very hard to change compared to other mental health issues i have.



that's good u dont feel guilty as it does feed the depression....
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 26th December 2010, 09:07
Replies: 11
Views: 2,012
Posted By Everleigh
Re: therapy seems to work for other things but not sa.

thanks for the replies.

i just feel a great sense of sadness trying accept this is my life. i think 'why should i miss out? its not fair'.
but your right struggling can lead to more depression.
...
Forum: The Lounge 25th December 2010, 10:35
Replies: 63
Views: 4,181
Posted By Everleigh
Re: Merry Christmas

^well said :)
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 25th December 2010, 10:17
Replies: 11
Views: 2,012
Posted By Everleigh
therapy seems to work for other things but not sa.

I've found this really hard to deal with. I've found therapy helped a lot with my agoraphobia, panic disorder. even depression a bit.
But social anxiety just won't go away. even with all the CBT...
Forum: The Lounge 25th December 2010, 09:58
Replies: 63
Views: 4,181
Posted By Everleigh
Re: Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas to everyone here on SAUK, I hope you have a good one.

http://i.123g.us/c/edec_c_spirit/card/105539.gif
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 19th December 2010, 12:10
Replies: 44
Views: 5,180
Posted By Everleigh
Re: SINGLETONS: are you proactive/ seeking or passively waiting...

I am very passive.
Coming on this site, I've been given advice to try internet dating and i think 'great idea' but do i do it? No. Why? I'm not sure.
I think in fact I go out of my way to avoid it...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 3rd December 2010, 11:33
Replies: 32
Views: 3,674
Posted By Everleigh
Re: Are you paranoid when people become interested in you?

yes same. i jump the gun too much and freak out. i worry that im coming across as boring or serious which ive been told alot lately. being around people my age i tend to get stage fright almost where...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 3rd December 2010, 11:25
Replies: 50
Views: 5,684
Posted By Everleigh
Re: Are you bitter/Resentful with life?

Cinderella,
I can relate to this one. Do you see your friend now you have had some time away from her?
I'm going thru the same thing atm with a friend. I catch up with her but I find myself...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 3rd December 2010, 11:17
Replies: 44
Views: 4,363
Posted By Everleigh
Re: Any other disorders?

is that from school of rock? i love that movie
Forum: Room with a View 1st December 2010, 06:25
Replies: 17
Views: 3,406
Posted By Everleigh
Re: travelling around europe

^Oh good Im glad :)
I always thought of it as a pipe dream that would never eventuate so couldnt believe it when i was physically in those places id always dreamt about. I tailored the trip to suit...
Forum: Room with a View 1st December 2010, 06:23
Replies: 5
Views: 2,393
Posted By Everleigh
Re: Standing up for myself

Well done! Must of felt good. Really well done !!
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 1st December 2010, 06:00
Replies: 44
Views: 4,363
Posted By Everleigh
Re: Any other disorders?

Gosh different psychiatrists have given me different diagnoses over the years.

One thought I had a psychotic disorder while another one disagreed

Official diagnoses over the years
-Panic...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th November 2010, 07:32
Replies: 64
Views: 5,385
Posted By Everleigh
Re: Prospect on moving out

yes I worry that living on my own I'd become even more reclusive and not do anything except surf the net 24/7!
I wish I had more friends or friends I were closer too. I have 2 friends at present and...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th November 2010, 07:22
Replies: 15
Views: 2,228
Posted By Everleigh
Re: Feeling despair when seeing people i'm attacted to

Same! Especially the bit about it's a reminder of ur issues. I feel at my worst around ppl I'm attracted to. Just feel ugly, awkward, inept and so nervous and then I start feeling like I'll be alone...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 29th November 2010, 07:24
Replies: 64
Views: 5,385
Posted By Everleigh
Re: Prospect on moving out

^ i don't have any advice sorry
but if it helps at all your not alone in this feeling.
Im the same- 25, live at home, would like to move out as feel a bit suffocated at home but a)don't have a...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 29th November 2010, 07:07
Replies: 38
Poll: Staying in.
Views: 4,069
Posted By Everleigh
Re: Staying in.

when i was agoraphobic i didn't leave the house for 2 months but now

i when im not working (which is the main reason to leave the house) i prob go out every second day most of the time to the...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 29th November 2010, 07:00
Replies: 4
Views: 1,384
Posted By Everleigh
Re: how do you answer when asked "ever thought of moving away/wanting things from lif

I've got no idea what I want and this question stumps me...I often get tongue tied.

Maybe just make something up to shut her up once and for all.........

I sometimes say the generic line of 'im...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 29th November 2010, 06:54
Replies: 54
Views: 7,542
Posted By Everleigh
Re: Flirting in real life: 101

I find I tend to read way too much into meaningless signals.
Eg-my male neighbour came over to today to talk about the front of the property. He is young, around my age. anyway he smiles, is really...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 21st November 2010, 12:43
Replies: 12
Views: 2,288
Posted By Everleigh
Re: relationship advice for people with SA?

i am quite happy to be with someone who is quiet. i find extroverts expect me to explain and justify my behaviour with questions like 'gee why are you so quiet?' 'gee you are serious'. i would hate...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 21st November 2010, 12:33
Replies: 35
Views: 3,458
Posted By Everleigh
Re: So where are all the people who aren't in a relationship ?

for sure yes. i live in a place where the main goal in life is to get married and have kids. everyone here is 'settled' not many young ppl and those that r young and paired off.
i cant stand it
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 20th November 2010, 00:53
Replies: 54
Views: 7,542
Posted By Everleigh
Re: Flirting in real life: 101

so true!! It does involved being relaxed with ones self. I find it hard to imagine that someone would like me in that way but flirting requires this belief.

I also keep my feelings kept locked up,...
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