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Forum: Room with a View 10th July 2009, 23:23
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Views: 1,855
Posted By monty_rp
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 29th May 2009, 12:16
Replies: 3
Views: 952
Posted By monty_rp
Re: becomming more outgoing by not going out

It helps if you're out to tackle demons or to get some things straight before taking risks. No point taking risks if you're in the state of mind where you're just gonna beat yourself up if things go...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 29th May 2009, 12:12
Replies: 28
Views: 2,434
Posted By monty_rp
Re: weekends and staying in

I've spent enough weekends in myself, so I use them for getting out there and forcing myself into situations. It's not so bad, it's gotten to the point where I can smile after a bad night, so it...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 29th May 2009, 11:56
Replies: 1
Views: 1,187
Posted By monty_rp
shut up brain

piss off
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 27th May 2009, 19:09
Replies: 12
Views: 1,607
Posted By monty_rp
Re: If you break a leg...

You can draw a willy on somebody's cast, but I wouldn't want somebody drawing one on my head. That just wouldn't be right.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 27th May 2009, 19:08
Replies: 2
Views: 968
Posted By monty_rp
Re: change my life to better suit your mood

haha here's another:

how many shy people does it take to change a lightbulb?

None, they'll be crying in the corner in the dark!


lol some guy said that to me before, that's how I remember...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 27th May 2009, 11:25
Replies: 12
Views: 1,828
Posted By monty_rp
Re: Can it cause lasting damage...

Christ you make it sound like sex is the only thing worth living for. I'm not nitpicking, 21 sounds pretty normal to me.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 26th May 2009, 18:48
Replies: 5
Views: 1,121
Posted By monty_rp
Re: How do you hang out with a girlfriend?

Yeah same here. When I managed to click with girls I realised I knew what to say/do all along, it was shyness tricking me into thinking I didn't.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 26th May 2009, 18:43
Replies: 5
Views: 1,121
Posted By monty_rp
Re: How do you hang out with a girlfriend?

In a lot of cases they're easier to hang out than with guys cos you don't sense their need to prove themselves or show dominance etc. I guess it's one of those things that you can only really learn...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 26th May 2009, 18:34
Replies: 6
Views: 1,270
Posted By monty_rp
Re: SAuk get your arse in gear

I used to do this when I realised that going to the cinema by yourself is a normal thing that loads of people do. Even my brother does it and he's 'mr social' with like a million friends! Cinemas...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 24th May 2009, 20:04
Replies: 7
Views: 1,235
Posted By monty_rp
Re: Drinking alcohol?

My mind goes into 'epic' mode with alcohol. Whether happy or sad, memories photos and the past seem much more significant. Cool feeling.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 24th May 2009, 20:01
Replies: 105
Views: 6,358
Posted By monty_rp
Re: The give yourself a break from alcohol thread!

psssss... glug glug.... damn misread the title :eekpurple
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 23rd May 2009, 20:59
Replies: 15
Views: 1,707
Posted By monty_rp
Re: Should I tell her?

^^ what (s)he said!!
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 23rd May 2009, 17:49
Replies: 15
Views: 1,707
Posted By monty_rp
Re: Should I tell her?

Naw I'm a little cynical when it comes to SA and relationships, so perhaps my advice is a bit skewed. It goes on the idea that girls don't like shy men, let alone them talking about their...
Forum: Room with a View 23rd May 2009, 17:44
Replies: 1
Views: 1,589
Posted By monty_rp
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 23rd May 2009, 13:17
Replies: 15
Views: 1,707
Posted By monty_rp
Re: Should I tell her?

Don't tell her you have SA, she'll dump you :laughing:

You don't need to give her an explanation for all your friends on your facebook list, just say, 'err, they're friends'.
Forum: Room with a View 22nd May 2009, 16:38
Replies: 10
Views: 1,866
Posted By monty_rp
Re: Booked a holiday!

That's really inspiring well done! I'm hoping to follow suit with the whole travel thing in the not-too-distant future. Have a great time there :thumbpur:
Forum: Room with a View 22nd May 2009, 16:37
Replies: 22
Views: 2,870
Posted By monty_rp
Re: woman at work assumed i'm a...um its complicated ;)

haha I've used that one loads of times...

"you seem really out of it..."

"yeah [long pause]... I'm a bit high..."

awesome works every time!
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 22nd May 2009, 14:19
Replies: 6
Views: 1,270
Posted By monty_rp
Re: SAuk get your arse in gear

That sounds like the best idea for this site I've heard in a long time! I'm not kidding, this is a support website so we should be actively encouraging and supporting each other in SA-related...
Forum: The Lounge 22nd May 2009, 01:11
Replies: 13
Views: 1,342
Posted By monty_rp
Re: Happy Birthday Wadsworth!

happy birthday!!!
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 21st May 2009, 16:33
Replies: 33
Views: 2,772
Posted By monty_rp
Re: what do you say when...

Hey this isn't about losing your temper over what they said, as that would most certainly expose your weakness more than hiding it. If you respect yourself enough, then you'll have the remarkable...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 21st May 2009, 15:13
Replies: 33
Views: 2,772
Posted By monty_rp
Re: what do you say when...

Hmm what's wrong with being shy?!? Where do I begin...

The world doesn't like shy people. Shy people don't get friends simply because people don't want to have shy friends. There's a hell of a lot...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 21st May 2009, 14:20
Replies: 28
Views: 2,395
Posted By monty_rp
Re: an overwhelming feeling that you just don't belong/ fit in =(

Whether it's being sensitive, introvert or extrovert, I genuinely believe some people are different down to their very genes.

I think I'm one of these people, and can shamelessly/smugly say I'll...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 21st May 2009, 14:10
Replies: 3
Views: 1,021
Posted By monty_rp
Re: Conformism

Hey I can relate to what you've said. Cool avatar btw I'm a Radiohead fan myself!!

I used to think about this a lot but realised that I was blaming my social problems on my slightly eccentric...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 21st May 2009, 13:56
Replies: 33
Views: 2,772
Posted By monty_rp
Re: what do you say when...

^^ ugh you don't wanna tell them that :eekpurple

Half the time these assholes are asking this question in a condrascending manner, especially if it's a guy asking a guy. Don't give them what they...
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