Forum: Room with a View
10th July 2009, 23:23
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Replies: 1
Views: 1,855
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
29th May 2009, 12:16
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Replies: 3
Views: 952
Re: becomming more outgoing by not going out
It helps if you're out to tackle demons or to get some things straight before taking risks. No point taking risks if you're in the state of mind where you're just gonna beat yourself up if things go...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
29th May 2009, 12:12
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Replies: 28
Views: 2,434
Re: weekends and staying in
I've spent enough weekends in myself, so I use them for getting out there and forcing myself into situations. It's not so bad, it's gotten to the point where I can smile after a bad night, so it...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
29th May 2009, 11:56
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Replies: 1
Views: 1,187
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
27th May 2009, 19:09
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,607
Re: If you break a leg...
You can draw a willy on somebody's cast, but I wouldn't want somebody drawing one on my head. That just wouldn't be right.
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
27th May 2009, 19:08
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Replies: 2
Views: 968
Re: change my life to better suit your mood
haha here's another:
how many shy people does it take to change a lightbulb?
None, they'll be crying in the corner in the dark!
lol some guy said that to me before, that's how I remember...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
27th May 2009, 11:25
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,828
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
26th May 2009, 18:48
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,121
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
26th May 2009, 18:43
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,121
Re: How do you hang out with a girlfriend?
In a lot of cases they're easier to hang out than with guys cos you don't sense their need to prove themselves or show dominance etc. I guess it's one of those things that you can only really learn...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
26th May 2009, 18:34
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,270
Re: SAuk get your arse in gear
I used to do this when I realised that going to the cinema by yourself is a normal thing that loads of people do. Even my brother does it and he's 'mr social' with like a million friends! Cinemas...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
24th May 2009, 20:04
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,235
Re: Drinking alcohol?
My mind goes into 'epic' mode with alcohol. Whether happy or sad, memories photos and the past seem much more significant. Cool feeling.
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
24th May 2009, 20:01
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Replies: 105
Views: 6,358
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
23rd May 2009, 20:59
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,707
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
23rd May 2009, 17:49
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,707
Re: Should I tell her?
Naw I'm a little cynical when it comes to SA and relationships, so perhaps my advice is a bit skewed. It goes on the idea that girls don't like shy men, let alone them talking about their...
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Forum: Room with a View
23rd May 2009, 17:44
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Replies: 1
Views: 1,589
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
23rd May 2009, 13:17
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,707
Re: Should I tell her?
Don't tell her you have SA, she'll dump you :laughing:
You don't need to give her an explanation for all your friends on your facebook list, just say, 'err, they're friends'.
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Forum: Room with a View
22nd May 2009, 16:38
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,866
Re: Booked a holiday!
That's really inspiring well done! I'm hoping to follow suit with the whole travel thing in the not-too-distant future. Have a great time there :thumbpur:
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Forum: Room with a View
22nd May 2009, 16:37
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Replies: 22
Views: 2,870
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
22nd May 2009, 14:19
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,270
Re: SAuk get your arse in gear
That sounds like the best idea for this site I've heard in a long time! I'm not kidding, this is a support website so we should be actively encouraging and supporting each other in SA-related...
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Forum: The Lounge
22nd May 2009, 01:11
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,342
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
21st May 2009, 16:33
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Replies: 33
Views: 2,772
Re: what do you say when...
Hey this isn't about losing your temper over what they said, as that would most certainly expose your weakness more than hiding it. If you respect yourself enough, then you'll have the remarkable...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
21st May 2009, 15:13
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Replies: 33
Views: 2,772
Re: what do you say when...
Hmm what's wrong with being shy?!? Where do I begin...
The world doesn't like shy people. Shy people don't get friends simply because people don't want to have shy friends. There's a hell of a lot...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
21st May 2009, 14:20
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Replies: 28
Views: 2,395
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
21st May 2009, 14:10
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Replies: 3
Views: 1,021
Re: Conformism
Hey I can relate to what you've said. Cool avatar btw I'm a Radiohead fan myself!!
I used to think about this a lot but realised that I was blaming my social problems on my slightly eccentric...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
21st May 2009, 13:56
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Replies: 33
Views: 2,772
Re: what do you say when...
^^ ugh you don't wanna tell them that :eekpurple
Half the time these assholes are asking this question in a condrascending manner, especially if it's a guy asking a guy. Don't give them what they...
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