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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 2nd July 2014, 17:04
Replies: 12
Views: 1,892
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Intense suicidal thoughts

Do you try hard to be positive and look forward to the good things in life, even if you have to pretend to like stuff? Definitely going to feel worse and worse if you focus on something your not...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 17th June 2013, 16:57
Replies: 8
Views: 3,970
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Would you let a trainee be your CBT therapist?

The 'american style shrink' is referred to as person centered therapy, which assumingly any CBT trainee would already be trained in so you may well find the trainee could offer abit of both to tailor...
Forum: Room with a View 14th October 2012, 00:31
Replies: 33
Views: 7,811
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Does life suck? How to feel better instantly

She really goes round in cicles making the same point over and over. She has a point though, i have to tell myself to snap out of it like 5 times a day!
Forum: Room with a View 29th September 2012, 01:37
Replies: 37
Views: 6,792
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Jogging

I love jogging in the summer or on a wind free evening but gym makes me push myself so much more. Wish I had a training buddy though!
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 29th September 2012, 01:21
Replies: 14
Views: 1,999
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: eBay/cash on collection scariness

I've done this loads of times, never invited anyone in or been invited in the only bad thing about collection is some people don't seem to understand the concept of bidding and think they can haggle...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 26th September 2012, 21:59
Replies: 8
Views: 3,179
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Never blushed before and now can't stop doing it

Nothing wrong or 'weird' or IMO embarrassing about blushing. It's human.. I seriously doubt anyone would care/be bothered about it though unless they have issues themselves. Infact I think it's nice...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 14th September 2012, 21:59
Replies: 22
Views: 3,297
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Mirtazapine

I wouldn't put your hopes on it to reduce any anxiety although it is a anxiolytic. If you have general anxiety disorder you might find it makes you abit less anxious throughout the day but not for a...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 12th September 2012, 23:05
Replies: 11
Views: 2,098
Posted By Paul Ll
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 12th September 2012, 22:33
Replies: 22
Views: 3,297
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Mirtazapine

I've taken this for some time now and have no side effects or negatives to report (no not even food craving).

I find it very effective for pre-night-worry so I can settle down for a good night...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 12th September 2012, 22:17
Replies: 11
Views: 2,098
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Married, still lonely and isolated.

If anything i'd presume having a child would make you lose alot of your freedom and make it harder to meet people, socialize and make/keep friendships.

It's difficult for everyone who isn't...
Forum: Room with a View 9th August 2012, 23:04
Replies: 16
Views: 2,958
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Has anyone seen a Mental Health specialist?

Not sure but the next 'step' to see after GP if you need to see a specialist is the "community mental health team".
They can prescribe/refer for CBT/talk/offer better advice.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 9th August 2012, 22:58
Replies: 41
Views: 4,115
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Physical fitness and SA?

It does help, gives you a confidence to be fit and healthy and have a good body.
Sometimes I get a good adrenalin buzz from exercise if I do high intensity and getting out the house and mixing is...
Forum: Room with a View 3rd May 2012, 01:42
Replies: 4
Views: 2,122
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Free Mindfulness-based cognitive therapy resource

Thanks for sharing :) Looks very good.
Forum: Room with a View 12th April 2012, 14:58
Replies: 40
Views: 15,698
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.

thank you very much! i'll pop in to 1 of those drop in classes and see where it leads.
Forum: Room with a View 12th April 2012, 13:08
Replies: 40
Views: 15,698
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.

Hi Benfica, thanks for the useful links.
I'm really interested in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, buddhism, mindfulness and acceptance. The way of thinking is very appealing to me.

CBT was...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 9th February 2012, 23:34
Replies: 5
Views: 1,197
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Depression in relationships

I can almost feel your pain! I hear the number 1 rule in relationships is communication. And the second rule is .. communication! :D

Hopefully she can better herself before she makes the mistake...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 26th January 2012, 18:23
Replies: 188
Views: 21,269
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Why aren't you in a relationship?

I suspect if your have troubles meeting someone right it might be the lack of loyalty and willingness to admit openly you'd betray someone like that (and try to portray it's her fault not yours)...
Forum: The Lounge 14th January 2012, 22:34
Replies: 8
Views: 1,171
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Which Laptop to buy?

something with a i3 (new gen, that's triple zeros) processes because they have alot to offer with graphics processing
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 13th January 2012, 21:09
Replies: 23
Views: 5,027
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Venlafaxine

I found with Venlafaxine it was important to find the right dose. Too much i wasn't able to control stress and got headaches.
This really helped me with controlling nervous tremor in voice and...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 7th January 2012, 01:48
Replies: 333
Views: 40,542
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Do you consider yourself attractive & sexually desirable to the opposite sex?

That's a horrible thing to say about yourself. you're the same as every other human when it comes down to it. And i think in a way we're all desirable to others in our own way. I hope you look at the...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 6th January 2012, 16:20
Replies: 333
Views: 40,542
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Do you consider yourself attractive & sexually desirable to the opposite sex?

Not sure why this is popular, i think people are overthinking it because of interesting title name?

Why take it so seriously, if you date enough people you will find someone that finds you...
Forum: Room with a View 6th January 2012, 16:11
Replies: 9
Views: 1,850
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Help with blushing - Interesting read

I am seeing more and more acceptance type methods.
Sort of go with the flow instead of attacking things like stress and insomnia just accept it.

It's the kind of path 'beating mental health with...
Forum: Room with a View 6th January 2012, 16:01
Replies: 31
Views: 5,323
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Does the Gym help with your anxiety

Can anyone answer me this?
My health worker says i should be asking my GP for gym pass for confidence building even though i'm not overweight. Can I get your epinions is ok morally? or a leach on...
Forum: Room with a View 6th December 2011, 01:11
Replies: 58
Views: 15,105
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Your "miracle" drug

This is not a answer to your poll but can i input the following.

I can't argue that a cause of problems could be brain chemistry and would be more balanced on drugs.

That said in general I...
Forum: Room with a View 2nd December 2011, 23:13
Replies: 263
Views: 226,152
Posted By Paul Ll
Re: Collection of SA/self-help book recommendation threads and links to free CBT

I have alot of ebooks about all sorts of things and some audio books collected over the years if anyone wants.
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