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Forum: Other Issues and Conditions 29th June 2020, 10:49
Replies: 1,769
Views: 261,467
Posted By Rufus
Re: The Suicide Thread - Trigger Warning

All I can say is that without anti-depressants I wouldnt be here now - like has been said they are not happy pills, you will not be skipping down the street loving life, but they helped me out of a...
Forum: Other Issues and Conditions 18th June 2020, 13:06
Replies: 1,769
Views: 261,467
Posted By Rufus
Re: The Suicide Thread - Trigger Warning

Thats just the depression talking skittles, that little negative devil on your shoulder.
The thing is, when we are depressed we listen to neg voice to much and believe all that it says but it tells...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 18th June 2020, 00:10
Replies: 3
Views: 1,384
Posted By Rufus
Re: Frustrated (as always)

you could always try talking about the weather

only joking, I know how you feel , I often wish I was like those confident people who can talk about anything to anyone but that not who I am or...
Forum: The Lounge 17th June 2020, 21:35
Replies: 27,074
Views: 2,070,788
Posted By Rufus
Re: How is everyone feeling? (31)

feeling really down - accepted an offer on our house - I should be happy but it has brought home how Ive buggered up my life and we are only selling our dream home because of me, going to miss our...
Forum: Club 30-81 1st June 2020, 20:27
Replies: 22
Views: 6,089
Posted By Rufus
Forum: Club 30-81 31st May 2020, 21:27
Replies: 22
Views: 6,089
Posted By Rufus
Re: Do you ever think you worry too much?

I worry to much, if it can go wrong it usually will go wrong. its ridiculous at times as I think about different scenarios and how it could go wrong and then if it doesnt happen or proved wrong, ...
Forum: The Garage 31st May 2020, 11:30
Replies: 1,410
Views: 305,789
Posted By Rufus
Forum: Club 30-81 30th May 2020, 23:20
Replies: 3
Views: 3,286
Posted By Rufus
Re: I give up...never feeling enough

can I ask if your are taking any medication to help ?

I am only starting on my journey and trying to expose myself to the things that cause my anxiety, its all trial and error, as said, baby...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th May 2020, 21:27
Replies: 26
Views: 3,030
Posted By Rufus
Re: How'd you change as you age?

I seem to have regressed to being a small frightened child.
Forum: The Garage 30th May 2020, 21:09
Replies: 1,410
Views: 305,789
Posted By Rufus
Re: Requests for moderators' attention

why is everybody leaving, banning themselves, having their posts deleted - have I come at a bad time.

Is there something going on - I am feeling a bit PARANOID
Forum: Room with a View 30th May 2020, 20:44
Replies: 1,678
Views: 336,901
Posted By Rufus
Re: Small things that make you smile

sorry to hear that Humphrey, Im sure he had a wonderful life with you.

thats why I love rescues - they have had such a hard start in life and just want to show them life can be good and they are...
Forum: Other Issues and Conditions 30th May 2020, 14:28
Replies: 1,769
Views: 261,467
Posted By Rufus
Re: The Suicide Thread - Trigger Warning

Thanks GI - everything is so complicated and takes so long - it took 5 months to get put in the ESA support group after filling out a 26 page form. The whole process, the system wears you down plus I...
Forum: The Lounge 30th May 2020, 13:06
Replies: 27,074
Views: 2,070,788
Posted By Rufus
Re: How is everyone feeling? (31)

well done jiggly - wish I had the motivation - Im totally unfit, a smoker and I dont think my knees could take it.

I couldnt even run 20secs without struggling
Forum: The Lounge 30th May 2020, 11:59
Replies: 29,577
Views: 2,071,287
Posted By Rufus
Re: Type what you're thinking about right now (11)

@ consolida - you are a very kind and caring person, sorry if Im always negative
I was feeling low last night and felt had to get it off my chest.

Its very hard now, having to deal with my...
Forum: The Lounge 30th May 2020, 03:02
Replies: 29,577
Views: 2,071,287
Posted By Rufus
Re: Type what you're thinking about right now (11)

That I am so sick of my shit life and how much of a failure I am
Forum: Other Issues and Conditions 29th May 2020, 21:04
Replies: 1,769
Views: 261,467
Posted By Rufus
Re: The Suicide Thread - Trigger Warning

Thanks for your kind replies - my wife by some miracle has not suffered any lasting effects of the stroke and is slowly returning to work (from home).

We arent entitled to much as wifes income...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 29th May 2020, 00:36
Replies: 11
Views: 1,220
Posted By Rufus
Forum: Room with a View 29th May 2020, 00:28
Replies: 1,678
Views: 336,901
Posted By Rufus
Re: Small things that make you smile

we had 3 but lost Rufus (hence the name) last year - he was great and our first ever dog - he was a rescue as well (seeing a trend) and was scared of his own shadow when we first got him., bless
...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 29th May 2020, 00:02
Replies: 11
Views: 1,220
Posted By Rufus
Re: Hair pulling Trichotillomania

As they thought it was some sort of irritation kids in the 80's didnt have mental issues
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 28th May 2020, 23:33
Replies: 11
Views: 1,220
Posted By Rufus
Re: Hair pulling Trichotillomania

sorry to hear that.:hug2:
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 28th May 2020, 22:39
Replies: 11
Views: 1,220
Posted By Rufus
Re: Hair pulling Trichotillomania

I think mine was related to anxiety but it was that long ago I cant remember or I have chosen to block it out.

I dont do it now - not on my head anyway - I pull eyebrows or from shoulders/ back (I...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 28th May 2020, 21:54
Replies: 11
Views: 1,220
Posted By Rufus
Hair pulling Trichotillomania

Has anybody suffered from this now or in the past.

I used to do it at age 10 to 12 - cant remember why but I did it to such an extent I had a bald patch and hid it with a comb over.

This was...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 28th May 2020, 15:03
Replies: 10
Views: 1,548
Posted By Rufus
Re: Grrr Birthdays really annoy me

sorry if it was Bday the other day Dave and I didnt realise - belated greetings

told you I was crap
Forum: The Garage 28th May 2020, 14:46
Replies: 3
Views: 5,262
Posted By Rufus
Re: Was the site down last night?

it was before then, upto about 01:00 I shutdown my PC went to bed and when I restarted it this morning all was ok - might have been a pc update or something I dont know but its ok now.
Forum: The Garage 28th May 2020, 12:16
Replies: 3
Views: 5,262
Posted By Rufus
Was the site down last night?

tried for hours to get on but it would load, went to bed, got up and it was working again.
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